Does this qualify as the "silent" treatment?

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#1 Apr 28 - 12PM
Harper03
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Does this qualify as the "silent" treatment?

Every time I miss him I "reflect" on the rude, mean and completely bizarre things he was done or said to me. The evening he ended our engagement over the phone when he was visiting his family, he sent me a request to play some game over our phones. I text him asking why he hadn't contacted me but sent me a game request and he ignored me... I was in full panic mode... I started to call (he would hit ignore) and text BEGGING him to tell me what was wrong. Mostly ignoring me, but sending a text "I am eating" then another about 20 mins later "I am busy" .... This went out for over an hour. Finally I said why are you doing this? He replied about 10 mins later he would call me in 5... Well, 20 mins later he called to end things and said he didn't want to do it over the phone but had to since I "sensed" something was wrong. Hmmmmm go from I love you in the morning to ending it literally 6 hours later.

Does that qualify for the silent treatment? I am not sure since it didn't last that long and he did send me some bullsh*t messages in between his bouts of ignoring me and me begging him to tell me what was wrong.

Apr 29 - 11AM
aceonelady
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Hi Harper03

Aceonelady

Apr 29 - 12PM (Reply to #43)
Harper03
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I am so sorry you had to go

Apr 28 - 6PM
onwithmylife
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harper

Apr 28 - 6PM (Reply to #40)
Harper03
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Thanks for the post. I do not

Apr 28 - 7PM (Reply to #41)
onwithmylife
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Harper

Apr 28 - 3PM
Deidre99
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The game was your entire

Apr 29 - 12AM (Reply to #29)
flowers
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they enjoy so much

Apr 29 - 2AM (Reply to #30)
Harper03
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flowers

Apr 29 - 5AM (Reply to #31)
flowers
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Harper

Apr 29 - 7AM (Reply to #32)
Harper03
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flowers

Apr 29 - 12PM (Reply to #35)
Deidre99
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When you get out of the fog

Apr 29 - 12PM (Reply to #36)
Harper03
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I can't wait until that day.

Apr 29 - 12PM (Reply to #37)
Deidre99
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I am so delighted you did

Apr 29 - 12PM (Reply to #38)
Harper03
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That is EXACTLY right and I

Apr 29 - 8AM (Reply to #33)
flowers
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Harper

Apr 29 - 12PM (Reply to #34)
Harper03
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It is amazing how they change

Apr 28 - 3PM (Reply to #24)
Harper03
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D :) thank you so much for

Apr 28 - 4PM (Reply to #25)
Deidre99
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well, it may seem that way,

Apr 28 - 4PM (Reply to #26)
Harper03
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So true!

Apr 28 - 4PM (Reply to #27)
Deidre99
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Narcissism is learned

Apr 28 - 5PM (Reply to #28)
Harper03
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I saved this so I can keep

Apr 28 - 2PM
Monarch
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Hunter

Apr 28 - 3PM (Reply to #22)
Harper03
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I love that part, too. I KNOW

Apr 28 - 1PM
Hunter
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Read, Read,Read

Apr 28 - 3PM (Reply to #20)
Harper03
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Great articles. Really puts

Apr 28 - 3PM
Janie53
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Harper

Apr 28 - 3PM (Reply to #15)
Harper03
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Thank you for your post.

Apr 28 - 3PM (Reply to #16)
Janie53
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Harper

Apr 28 - 4PM (Reply to #17)
Harper03
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Thank you so much. I hate

Apr 28 - 5PM (Reply to #18)
Janie53
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Harper