The Most Hurtful One-liner N Blurted Out - What Was Yours?

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September 11, 2011 - 2:39pm (Reply to #33)
Unfreakinreal
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Anabelle

What an absolute bastard. Sorry if you have feelings for him, but what an ass. I have heard many of those, topped off with: "Being with her only solidified what you and I have." Did I really put up with all of that day after day?
September 11, 2011 - 2:44pm (Reply to #34)
Anabelle
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The amazing thing is that I

The amazing thing is that I didn't leave straight after one of these sentences.... The most painful sentence was his last sentence to me, before he dumped me... I love you. We are a team, dont' forget it. We are going to fix everything together. passionate kiss-merciless DUMP within 12 hours... It's like going to hug someone, but stab him actually... It was hard. But I survived... I am making a huge progress. Especially today. I don't see him as a bastard. I see him as a sad bunch of vomit on a piece of dogshit in the rain with some blond hair.
September 11, 2011 - 6:29pm (Reply to #43)
tresor2
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Hard to Leave - Anabelle

I think the reason we don't leave after these remaks is that the part of our brain that sends out the red flags (fight or flight) is shut down due to the years of abuse. We become numb. For me, it sometimes took several days for the impact of his cruel statements to hit me. At first, I couldn't process or I dissociated from the remark because it was so hidious. I lived in denial for years.
September 12, 2011 - 2:31am (Reply to #44)
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100% tresor2

You are so right... This post was a great idea, because I HAD TO THINK of those sentences... I hide these sentences so deep down into my mind to protect my heart, that I had to recall them... crazy... numb and destroyed...
September 11, 2011 - 2:51pm (Reply to #35)
Unfreakinreal
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I didn't leave either...

Because he kept giving me the, "I can see myself coming back to you." bullshit. I see mine in the same light only with greying curly hair (yes, dear, that is grey hair - sorry, it happens to the best of us...) :)
September 11, 2011 - 2:59pm (Reply to #36)
Anabelle
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I guess curly hair is a

I guess curly hair is a must. I will name my Prickhard... what's your crapmen's name??? :)))
September 11, 2011 - 3:14pm (Reply to #37)
Unfreakinreal
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Oh Anabelle...

I think he will forever be known as; Horseclippers LMFAO right now!!! Yes, I admit it, he was quite hairy and I trimmed him with horse clippers. He called me Sacagawea because I told him I felt like Lewis and Clark trying to find his nipples. If he has happened onto this site there is no way he would not know that it's me.
September 17, 2011 - 2:29pm (Reply to #42)
Nutzie17
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Great Names!

I simply call him "Fuckhead!"
September 11, 2011 - 6:31pm (Reply to #39)
tresor2
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Unfreakinreal

Glad to hear that you didn't inadvertently clip the family jewels.
September 11, 2011 - 7:27pm (Reply to #40)
Unfreakinreal
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Tresor2

My dear, I would have had to get REALLY close to accomplish that. And I lost my reading glasses months ago... ;)
September 12, 2011 - 1:29am (Reply to #41)
tresor2
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LOL-The Jerk Got Lucky

Lucky him you lost your reading glasses and couln't find a magnifying glass. Seems like these psychos spend their lives dodging bullits or scissors.
September 11, 2011 - 3:34pm (Reply to #38)
Anabelle
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.... pfff

.... pfff :DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
September 11, 2011 - 1:56pm
Sunafterrain
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Comments

During the D&D "You don't want me to be happy, you're going to make sure I have nobody new" (this after discovering his lies about his next target that I found out about and confronted. "You're a fucking bitch!" "It's always all about you, isn't it?" "Even if I wanted someone else, you're going to make sure I don't have it". "You're flabby" "Why do you always do that?" "You're way too sensitive to shit" "Well maybe if you'd stop bitching me out we could have a relationship" "I'm tired of your constant assumptions" "false accusations/assuming again " (this was his favorite of all) "Why do you always think the worst of me? You call me a liar and then you find out I'm telling the truth!" WTF?? "You always make me out to be some terrible person"
September 17, 2011 - 9:04am (Reply to #31)
Jelickuk
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Ah so you've met my exnh then

Ah so you've met my exnh then
September 11, 2011 - 1:29pm
Tigerlily
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Hurtful comments

3 weeks before I moved in with him: You can move into my house, because I don`t want to see you on the street, but we are not together anymore. Around 2 months later, in front of my son and his girlfriend: Can`t you talk your old landlord into taking you back or something? Before going off on a three-week business trip: I`m not interested in talking to you, I`m not interested in living with you, in fact I`m not interested in you, period. There was plenty more, I think I`ve suppressed a lot of painful memories.
September 11, 2011 - 1:02pm
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You're wierd/creepy Always

You're wierd/creepy Always said when i'd just poured my heart out during moments of D&D - it cut like a knife that he hadn't realised the desperation in my pleading not to leave me. However when re-hoovering if he acted/said the same things it wasn't wierd or creepy it was acceptable!! Another one was an old post i saw on FB the other day from this time 1 year ago. Mt status read 'JMi has no money, no job and no idea whats gonna happen in life but is the happiest i've ever been' N commented 'what are you so happy about??' as if he was jealous I commented 'i'm marrying you in December!!' He never re-commented - he was obviously feeling the same.....NOT!!!! Typical behaviour!
September 11, 2011 - 12:59pm
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"YOU COULD HAVE MADE ME

"YOU COULD HAVE MADE ME HAPPY" this after years of being with him! Love the way every time he D&Dd me he would hug me and say he was sorry! And you could tell he had been crying his eyes were swelled up and blood shot!
September 11, 2011 - 12:28pm
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It's always about you

That was the absolute clincher. After years and years of trying to help him, understand him, even go to therapy sessions on his behalf, be there for him in times of family troubles etc, help him with work place accusations of bullying (with the OW - unbeknown to me at the time), dramas with his N mother, problems with his numerous ongoing workplace dramas, his neurosis and his general lack of consideration for me. Felt it was time to take a bow at this last, and final comment. Enough was enough, get on with it fella, this train had definitely left the station for the last time and going somewhere more appreciative and better for my health. Dee x
September 11, 2011 - 1:49pm (Reply to #26)
Sunafterrain
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UK Lady

I heard that sentence uttered by him MORE than once.
September 11, 2011 - 12:18pm
Hunter
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After both of us consulted

After both of us consulted with a divorce attorney for me, and I found an apartment. "you thought we were in a relationship" "We're just friends" Hunter
September 11, 2011 - 12:06pm
lillymarch
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There are a few...

"You're a bitch!" "You were a terrible home maker." "You don't know what a man needs." "You don't know how to treat a man." "You're a terrible cook." This all after 20 years together and 5 children. This is so very painful for me. I cooked and cleaned for years. I homeschooled and took care of EVERYTHING, but not myself. Because if I was taking care of me I would have left that f-ing loser a long time ago.
September 11, 2011 - 11:51am
MovingForward
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Mine was:

After I had been beat down, disabled and depressed. "Look at you, who would want to have sex with you"
September 11, 2011 - 5:45pm (Reply to #22)
Swan
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Sex

"If you would just have sex with me more often, I wouldn't yell at you so much"
September 11, 2011 - 12:14pm (Reply to #21)
Done sourcing
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She used this coming and going

"I am a one man woman", she used it when I found out about the other man, saying she couldnt help herself. And she has tried to use the same line to get me to believe that if I took her back she wouldn't stray because she is a one man woman. Yeah, I can trust that kind of thinking. Not! Whack job. A question I ponder is "where do they come from and where can you go to buy a ticket to send them back there?" ds
September 11, 2011 - 11:49am
grace67
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There's one that stands out

There's one that stands out in my mind, too. After calling me his wife, and spouse, and talking about getting married, in the early months... someone posted on good ol' fb about the 12 days of Christmas song. He said "Well, I'm sure not thinking about any golden rings..I'm Sure you understand" in that smarmy way of his..little smirk on his face and all. This was before the D&D, but after he'd starting working up to it. I remember my heart sinking even lower, the feeling of being kicked in the gut.. Asses.. all of them!!!
September 11, 2011 - 11:47am
WakingUP (not verified)
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"I didn't need

"I didn't need you...." Which, on the surface, may not seem so bad. But looking back, I believe this was hurled at me specifically because I sincerely needed to be appreciated and validated as a person. And he knew how much it would hurt me. (And it simply wasn't true...)
September 11, 2011 - 11:47am
Sparrow
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We aren't "together", we are

We aren't "together", we are just "friends"
September 11, 2011 - 11:46am
Pride and Shame
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Best One-liner

"You think too much"
September 11, 2011 - 11:48am (Reply to #15)
WakingUP (not verified)
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I got that one, and "you like

I got that one, and "you like to make things too complicated."
September 11, 2011 - 2:37pm (Reply to #16)
Anabelle
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no comment...

...
September 11, 2011 - 11:45am
ordinarycourage
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Hurtful One-liners

"You never loved me. You just imprinted on me like a duckling." What? We were together for 20 years.
September 17, 2011 - 11:54am (Reply to #13)
Pride and Shame
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Like a Duckling

Yours is my favorite. Truly. LOL.
September 11, 2011 - 12:26pm (Reply to #12)
Done sourcing
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I can't close the door...

She would tell me early in the mess that she could't close the door on him, the other man. Back then I was trying to save my family unit and my hurt pride, and I couldn't understand why she couldn't let him go. Interestingly, once I got strong and clear and moved out, she started telling me that she was telling the new guy that she couldn't close the door on me and move forward with him. She sometimes would even talk in percentages, like "I'm 75 percent ready to let you go, shit like that. I imagine it confused the new guy that she left me to be with him and was telling him she hadn't completely closed the door on me. What a stupid wasted of time that whole episode was in my life. Thanks to you here I don't have to listen to her crap anymore, it really used to suck me in big time. NC saved my life. I now know she was in her heaven and happy place when I was willing to listen to this drivel, because she was getting supply from me and him at the same time. Narcissistic heaven. ds-I am done giving my energy and light to a darkness that sucks off of me to fill its insatiable need for supply.
September 11, 2011 - 12:08pm (Reply to #2)
tresor2
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LOL

What a piece of work!
September 11, 2011 - 12:47pm (Reply to #3)
Unfreakinreal
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So many to choose from...

During one of his famous break down and cry uncontrollably dramas, I received this little gem AS I WAS HOLDING HIM WHILE HE CRIED! "I don't know why I can't respect you... I just don't want to settle for less than I deserve." You would be sick to your stomach if I told you how many times I let him D&D me and then come back after that. Oh, and yeah, I for sure gave him my body that night. Unfreakinreal alright.
September 11, 2011 - 12:57pm (Reply to #4)
Unfreakinreal
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More little gems...

"I have thought about spending the rest of my life with you but at some point I am going to want you all to myself. I am concerned that your son will never leave home." My son has Tourette Syndrome, mild to moderate, quite unnoticeable for the most part, and does not affect his intelligence or ability to lead a completely normal life in any way, shape or form. "Why can't you just take things as they were intended?" I got this one after a hiatis and an invite to lunch where he 'neglected' to move the Viagra from the center console where I was sure to see it... "You have no idea what I had to go through to be with that woman." "I told you from the beginning that all I wanted was a friend." After we were most definitely a couple for quite some time.
September 11, 2011 - 2:08pm (Reply to #5)
Unfreakinreal
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I almost forgot this one...

"Why is it always all or nothing with you?" This was the one I got after I advised him that I expected our relationship to be monogamous. I didn't ask for future committment, only that while we were together, he wouldn't date other women. I didn't think it was unreasonable.
September 11, 2011 - 2:50pm (Reply to #11)
Anabelle
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more we talk, more hatred I have....

OHHH!!! YESSS!!! This is a good one... What about... "Why do you think the whole word is against you?"
September 11, 2011 - 2:16pm (Reply to #6)
Used
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unfreakingreal

PROJECTION PROJECTION...THEY ARE THE ONE,S WHO ARE ALL OR NOTHING..if your friends..as i was, he wanted him to be my only friend...i have fav songs that remind me of each of my kids...he told people they were our songs.....he even at one point tried[softlysoftly] to get me to choose btw him or my family....i said not in this friggen lifetime..he said he was only joking..... they are greedy bastards, so it stands to reason..they are all or nothing....
September 11, 2011 - 2:29pm (Reply to #7)
Unfreakinreal
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Used

I am so glad you said that... I always used to think the same thing when he said it. I didn't ask for shit except that he didn't date another women when we were together. And I mean I asked for NOTHING. Everybody had to fit into their assigned role I guess. When I told him that it was him that was his way or no way, he told me to stop overanalyzing and just take things day by day. Greedy greedy greedy slimy little fuckers.
September 11, 2011 - 2:36pm (Reply to #8)
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unfreakingreal

yes,narc even said to me once i hope you are not seeing someone behind my back..i said no i wasent[do friends say this anyway]...but he was in was in untold f/s r/s....they tell you what they are doing ever time they accuse you of something...they are doing.....slimey snakes...when i did become friends with another man.....i didnt do it behind his back...lol....he was not a happy bunny
August 17, 2012 - 9:11am (Reply to #9)
Walkingonsunshine
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"I ll talk to prostitutes and

October 8, 2013 - 1:24am (Reply to #10)
Bhappy
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"your always changing your