The Most Hurtful One-liner N Blurted Out - What Was Yours?

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August 17, 2012 - 2:55pm (Reply to #142)
Jenna H
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OMG Very Happy Girl....

August 17, 2012 - 8:37pm (Reply to #143)
Very happy girl
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God I needed to hear this !

August 17, 2012 - 8:44pm (Reply to #144)
nolongerbound's picture

Very happy girl

August 17, 2012 - 8:46am (Reply to #140)
Goldie's picture

This guy clearly also has psychpathic tendencies

August 17, 2012 - 8:54am (Reply to #141)
Very happy girl
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Thank you Goldie, the

August 17, 2012 - 3:31am
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August 17, 2012 - 12:35am
Belle de jour
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I have a good one

August 17, 2012 - 12:31am
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Hello tresor2

August 17, 2012 - 12:27am
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Special Friend

August 17, 2012 - 9:09am (Reply to #135)
nolongerbound's picture

Ewww, asking to be friends

August 16, 2012 - 11:29pm
Raven333's picture

Here a couple of doozies: 1.

August 17, 2012 - 8:40pm
Glo's picture

I'm Not Alone, Needed This Post!

August 16, 2012 - 7:32pm
bleedingheart's picture

Damn my dick is so sore from

August 16, 2012 - 5:43pm
Darlene's picture

Promise me

August 16, 2012 - 5:25pm
neet87's picture

"To be fair I'd still fuck

August 16, 2012 - 3:06pm
Canada's picture

After learning about his

August 16, 2012 - 3:11pm (Reply to #127)
Jareth's picture

Holy sheep

August 18, 2012 - 9:57am (Reply to #128)
talktothehand's picture

Holy Sheep

August 16, 2012 - 3:08pm
IncognitoBurrito's picture

"Do you...

August 16, 2012 - 2:35pm
mystwoman's picture

"Maybe I'll just beat the

God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.

August 16, 2012 - 2:33pm
Warrior's picture

A classic

August 16, 2012 - 2:33pm
Healingslowly_but getting there's picture

I said " if I had l known

August 16, 2012 - 2:26pm
Jareth's picture

He usually targeted my biggest fears about myself

August 18, 2012 - 10:10am (Reply to #121)
Jenna H
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August 16, 2012 - 2:21pm
wideawake's picture

Heard so many of these!

August 16, 2012 - 2:18pm
justmentheboys4's picture

One of many

August 16, 2012 - 1:51pm
femnarc's picture

nasty comments

September 18, 2011 - 10:59pm
a girl
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The most hurtful recent one

The most hurtful recent one was, upon my discovering his affair: "I didn't really consider it an affair, because as far as I was concerned, our relationship was over and I was moving on to my next relationship."
September 18, 2011 - 7:08pm
lela76's picture

The dark cloud

mine use to always tell me that he hated coming home because there was always a dark cloud that followed me was funny he would say that because that is how myself and my roomate felt about him..he had no clue that our roomate knew what kind of person he was ...since he always talked shit about me to her she would tell me and i would tell her what he said to me about her...he told me that my roomate didnt like being home and wasnt around because of me...little did he know it was because of him and i knew that he was making it all up ...lies upon lies ... then he moved some other girl in the house into his room while i still lived there got drunk came in my room professing his undying love for me and then had the nerve to tell me if it ok with you she is staying in the room with me tonight ... by then i had enough and was already making plans to move back to the west coast...i got a ton of em
September 18, 2011 - 6:35pm
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hurtful one liners

Someone's post just reminded me of this one: Him "If you would just do exactly what I tell you to do, we wouldn't have any problems at all." AND SO....he used to tell me to get the f*ck out of his house all the time...and guess what? I got the f*ck out of his house and he was right. We don't have any problems at all now!!! :-)
August 31, 2012 - 9:46pm (Reply to #114)
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omg.thats exactly he tells me all the time

August 31, 2012 - 9:46pm (Reply to #113)
lilyd30's picture

omg.thats exactly he tells me all the time

September 18, 2011 - 5:06pm
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My personal fave!

You're a damaged piece of dog shit with deep seeded issues and you and I both know this.... Running a close second is: I behave this way because you make me. Everything is all your fault! Monique
September 18, 2011 - 5:53pm (Reply to #111)
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i heard that one all the time

Heard it time and again, "you make me mean". WTF?
September 18, 2011 - 1:47pm
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The one I heard a lot while

The one I heard a lot while being D&D'd many times. "I hope you get the help and meds you need" and when coming back after a 40 days of the silent treatment. "dont do any more dumbshit and I wont leave you again"
September 18, 2011 - 6:31pm (Reply to #107)
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Your post actually made me laugh today. Don't do anymore dumb shit and I won't leave you again"! That one is classic hall of fame narc crap right there! I've heard facsimiles of that one before too and yeah, I was told I needed intense therapy and meds also... Lol Monique
August 16, 2012 - 2:00pm (Reply to #109)
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September 18, 2011 - 9:36pm (Reply to #108)
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Haha...I can actually think of a lot more things that he told me. I said back to him " that is pretty subjective, how do I know if I am doing dumb shit?" He says "Well if it involves me and I think its dumb dont do it!" p.s. Next time I am down south I am totally meeting you for a movie and wine:) I go down there a lot!
September 18, 2011 - 2:05pm (Reply to #106)
Better than ever
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Oh, you just reminded me of

Oh, you just reminded me of another goodie.... "Maybe we can continue in this relationship without breaking up if you don't go running at the mouth and tell me what bothers you about me...." This is truly a classic.....
September 18, 2011 - 10:06am
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My favourite one liners

I had been listening to a radio show about sociopaths and was morbidly fascinated and shocked by the program. My ex said, "You know, you're fascinated by that program because you think you're a sociopath". WOW!!! And the one thrown at me every other day for three years... "You know there are two people in this relationship. It always has to be about YOU doesn't it? Well what about MY feelings? You're so nasty to me, you're so horrible to me". Translate as... "It's about ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME, ME and you're getting too clever and one day you're gonna suss me out and then you'll leave just like everyone else does because I am actually a pathetic heap of human junk!"
September 18, 2011 - 1:59am
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"You're dumb as shit and

"You're dumb as shit and fucking retarded" Ouch....despite the fact I had three university degrees and he had one.
September 17, 2011 - 6:03pm
juliamarie's picture

My favorite...

Was when he called me an "f'ing c*nt" and then screamed at me to get out of his house and leave my key. This happened twice (yeah...shame on me for going back). But he had no idea what I'm talking about when I told him he was abusive.
September 17, 2011 - 5:24pm
Better than ever
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Oh, I have so many....

but the ones that hurt the most involved violence..... "You better let me leave here (we didnt live together) or I'm going to destroy everything in your house.." I was pregnant and he put his fist to my stomach..."Realize I would do this (punch me in the stomach) if I wanted to..." You get the idea....
September 17, 2011 - 5:21pm
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Of the many, the worst one

Of the many, the worst one was "you disgust me". This was said with a look of disgust on his face while the blood ran down my chin from the bloody nose he'd just given me.
September 18, 2011 - 6:35pm (Reply to #100)
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One word for your NARC: SCUMBAG! Wait another one: LOSER Oh wait wait: DEUCHEBAG Sorry you had to deal with that crap! Hugs Monique
September 18, 2011 - 12:39pm (Reply to #99)
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Oh, honey! I'm so sorry. :(
September 17, 2011 - 2:40pm
uk lady
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The absolute final straw

"It's always about you Dee" Almost the last words he said to me. It finally made me wake up to this man's manipulation/reverse psychology and projection. I was absolutely speechless and in that moment knew I had to get out. Dee x
September 17, 2011 - 2:31pm
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Hurtful remarks - so so many

Hi everyone, This is the first time I have posted a comment, although I have been reading everyone post for around 3 months now. I am NC since the 2nd of August from my supsected Narc of 3 years. This post really hit a nerve for me. I had so many hurtful comments thrown at me over the years. My all time favourite though was "Your fake!, everything about you is fake, your hair, yours nails, your eyelashes." I take pride in my apperance but obviously that wasn't right. Funny thing is on weekdays - I was often seen in my tracksuit in the evenings, this also wasn't right to him. Then I would get.... "God, don't make a effort to look nice for me" No wonder my head is so screwed up now, why is it one day you feel like your life is moving on and the next you crave to be back to receiving the crumbs you got from them? I know it is only early days for me, but it is very painful to be so confused. I read this forum every evening, I honestly do not know where I would be if I couldn't compare everyones stories and the behiours of the Narc with my experiences. Thanks everyone x
September 17, 2011 - 12:34pm
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A couple one liners that

A couple one liners that really hurt were.....'a hole is just a hole" , "I hope you get help for your fucked up head". There were so many one liners....ugggg what was I thinking!
September 17, 2011 - 12:15pm
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he told me "I can make you do

he told me "I can make you do whatever I want you to do" And "there are no guarantees" I can't give you what you want" "you could have made me happy" If you really love me you wouldn't date again for a long time" Always gave me dirty looks, always the silent treatment if I didn't comply! There are so many! if I told him no he would say "are you telling me NO" and if I said yes he would twist my arm behind my back until I said ok. He has put in in "sleeper holds" to try and make me pass out, and would laugh and say "GOOD NIGHT"