NOT YET
this is has been his standard answer to every question or request asked in 9 years.
did you pay the bill... NOT YET
are you ready to eat... NOT YET
did you answer my email... NOT YET
did you see my email. NOT YET
did you get my urgent message..NOT YET
can we fix the house before the roof falls in? NOT YET
Are you in love with me? NOT YET
Do you know what flight youre on? NOT YET
Have your told your job we are married? NOT YET
NOT YET, IS THE PERFECT HOOK, it keeps you hoping,
MY second favourite name for him is
SLIMESUCKING< SICKPERSON-IGNORING>>>DOG-TURD-LOOKING-POS -ARSESWIPE PATHETIC_SOCIOPATHIC PIECE OF NOTHING>>>>>>>>>
Chocolate Starfish. That is his user name on a dating website where he preys on nice girls for NS. In case anyone doesn't know that literally means A@@Hole. It is a Limp Bizkit song too. Creepy huh? Boy was I deceived!
ALSO, I refer to his N behavior as VIOLENT AFFECTION (for whatever he uses and how he loves only him). That is what he calls his 'passion' and his passion hurts people. It is from a quote by Marcus Aurelius.
The ex-Psych prof was once called Beret Boy. He wasn't French (there was a professor who was from France&wore a beret, that was OK). I invented the nickname 15 years ago.
At the time, I was too scared to use it to him to his face.
Should I helpfully inform him of this new name? Start note with "Dear Beret Boy." Yeah, he's almost 50, and like the other digit in 50, I'd feel ZERO remorse for telling him about that one.
Psychodwarf - how many times did I hear "I haven't got a problem with being a little fella" - er except you mention it every ten minutes. Getting angry now.
he always had Erectile dysfunction, ha ha so he is MR ED. Now when I think about it he did sort of have horse teeth, ha ha Wilbur, give me some more hay, ha ha ha
Even the Dark Lord. Harry Potter/Lord of the Rings fans, you know you who are!
A decade ago, when I found out the ex-Psych prof had fathered a son&a daughter with his girlfriend, I did the Imperial March over the phone, complete with the respirator sounds. He didn't kill me, and my inner nerd was quite alive&well!
Yes, I recognize the references. :) I've referred to CharlieSheenWinning as He Who Shall Not Be Named when i can't even muster up the gumption to call him Charlie Sheen.
Now I have the Imperial March in my head. :)
Yep, that's his official nickname on this board. To my friends I call him CharlieSheen, Winning!, or That Asshole.
"Winning" Behavior: Has a typical (as I'm learning here) on/off narc relationship w/someone (me), goes on a trip with her, comes home and d&d's her to the point where she breaks the relationship off, the *day after* she breaks it off he meets another woman, three weeks after he meets the other woman he *marries* the other woman.
Ladies and gentlemen, I now present CharlieSheenWinning and NewWinningWife!
Anyone want to toast the nuptials with a shot of tiger blood?
Since we're both gay, and since he's cold and emotionless, and since he also likes to live in his own imaginary little world where there are no consequences to his actions, I call him:
The Ice Queen of Narcnia
because he calls himself silverfox. That's even his email address ! pmsl...
Greektwatassclown
The ian beale of littlehampton ( for those who watch eastenders)
IT
most of the time I do not call him anything at all. That's too much of a waste of my precious energy....
Mine is Duckturd. It all started with a FB thread from a couple of my best friends who know us both and were there through all the drama. At some point, one of them wrote, "If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, guess what, it's a f**kn duck! We were already referring to him as Fucktard, which evolved into Dicktard, then Ducktard because of the duck thread, and now DuckTURD. We've also had a lot of laughs and inside jokes about ducks ever since then.
What a great way to "get it out"!
k, I wanna be a sport and play too! so......
First N was "shit for brains". Sorry I can't be more original but that really is what he was. Dumb, dumb and really unbeliaveably dumb. Embarassingly dumb.
Second one....."Mr. I am an 'immature cross-eyed and beaver toothed lawyer that takes out my mommy issues on women'".
(high fiving you) "shit for brains" is always a good one because it truly does describe their mental (or lack of) abilities.
TovaBella
P.S. Back when the ex-N started seeing the nineteen year old. He'd say he was going out and I'd ask him if he and the hatchling were going to meet Chris Hansen for dinner. If you don't know him, he's the guy who hosts a sexual predator show on T.V. . haha
NOT YET this is has been his
Chocolate Starfish
Narc Name
Love it!
lol, why don't you tell us
Just like old times...
Nicknames
thats easy
Because he looks like a horse?
no silly
"MR ED" .. love it !
He Who Must Not Be Named
Very funny!
The Devil
Hope Again...Mine too! And don't forget...
Gnome!
CharlieSheenWinning!
Since we're both gay, and
silver toad
Nickname
DuckTURD
These are pretty awesome! I
I Want To Play!!!
also
What a great way to "get it
Staying Strong78
TovaBella
Geez there are just so many!!!
Sara, Snaggle tooth!
Hunter