'Outing him' discussion...
'Outing him' discussion...
I am torn by thoughts of letting the few people who are completely snowed by this N individual what he is really like. I war with it and wonder if it is just revenge fantasy or obligation to warn them or to get some shred of my power back. Last year when we went NC I almost did as he is "coaching" a boy, the boy's family is clueless as to his true nature, and he left a mark on me in a rage before storming out. I didn't call because I knew he'd spin it to make me look like the crazy, vindictive, mentally ill person. I know any thoughts of him and/or whatever he's doing and whomever he's doing it with are not good and try to divert but I'm a little stuck on this one. Any and all comments and admonishions would be most appreciated.
I want so very much to let this all go. It's day 6 of absolute NC; only saw him once since Oct. 26.
Thank you so much.
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Outing...
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Don't do it everyone will
if you feel
more confirmation of what I used to know...
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Briseis this is so very
so very true
For me outting him to
totally understand
I was tormented by this too.
almostlydia
thank you...
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Not worth the effort....
Thank you. So true and what
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