Lucy's story
Lucy's story
I have been married for 19 yrs.- I am just realizing (over the past year) that my marriage is a complete joke. I have been reading all weekend about this disorder and I just can't believe my eyes. It's like someone has been living with us and is now writing about it. My husband and youngest son are out of town at a baseball tournament-he of course has been texting me non stop so he knows what I'm doing. Last night he sent me these pic of a funny saying on a shirt and I made a funny comment back that he took out of context and twisted and then spent the rest of the night calling me terrible names and ended up telling me he just wanted it to be over. He said some really ugly things to me-about me. This morning when he started texting me I didn't respond to the first two and he waited about thirty minutes then all the threats come flying in...."I will be home later today and you are going to be so sorry you didn't respond" that type thing. Finally ended up threatening to turn off my phone (we have a seventeen yr old) so he knows I NEED my phone in case our son needs me-or my elderly mother. So I had to reply-he then tells me I brought all those terrible things he said to me on MYSELF!! Oh my gosh!! Then told me I also brought on the fact that he was leaving on MYSELF!! He threatens to leave all the time-so I don't know if he will or not..but he said I would be so screwed---he is basically right. I'm just so shocked by all this. Just over a comment that I made-then by not responding this morning. But I told him... "who would want to after the things you said to me last night". I'm sorry this is so long. I have no one to talk to about him and I feel like I'm going crazy. So now I'm in the panic mode because he will be back in a few hours and I don't know what will happen.
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Is he violent??
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Oh Lucy , what a horrible