Furious
Furious
I just found out that the N fired his second attorney and hired a new one. He has filed for divorce, and is asking that I pay him $1900 from escrow refunds and is holding me in contempt for "revealing information to the children" about his relationship with another woman. He is accusing me of alienating our 14-year-old from him.
OMFG! I revealed information!!!! He left condom wrappers on the couch, leaves her shit all over his apartment, lied to our daughter repeatedly, left notes out about her, had her spend the night with he and our 5-year-old, and it's MY FAULT that his relationship with her sucks!
I am SOOO pissed! I know that he is trying to bring me down before I go on my trip. I'm leaving on Sunday for Russia for a month. Can't wait to get the HELL out of here, worried about my kids though.
I was good yesterday--out on the lake with friends, prepared for him filing for divorce after 18 months of separation. But today--I'm a wreck. I went to my daughter's swimming lessons and he was there with the babysitter. She hadn't come in yet, she left with her head hanging down low ladies, taking tiny, tip-toeing steps so that I wouldn't see her, or so she thought. It is at a public pool and I paid for the lessons, so of course I am going to be there! I didn't even make eye contact with him, just ignored him and acted like he wasn't there.
I wish that she would stay the f""@# away from my children! What are they thinking? Meanwhile, he is still leaving stuff out in his apartment for my kids to see. Babysitter gave him a certificate for a Massage (at a very girly spa, I might add) that said "To my wonderful man". My daughter was grossed out and said that she took the certificate and all of the babysitters' crap and put it in a box. He came home from work and screamed at her for snooping and threw the box at her, telling her to put it all back.
AAAArrrruuugghh!! I am trying so hard to rise above all of this stuff. Luckily, I have an appointment with my counselor today. Much needed.
pathetic
Dcrutche
Lost my Mind
Dcrutche
Custody