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#1 Jul 2 - 8PM
Bittersweet
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Being Judged

Just thought this was funny, i was looking back and reflecting on some of my conversations with the N and remembered we had a conversation about why in the world he would want to get his nose and lip pierced at 30 and remember him answering "Well, I am a successful computer hacker, and make good money, and I judge people by their exterior, so the piercings were to see how people would judge me/percieve me and to help me stop being so judgemental." HA HA HA

Right, judgemental he is all about!!!!

Jul 3 - 10AM
quietude (not verified)
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hypocrites!

bittersweet, ya..isn't that funny how they are total hypocrites. Do as I say, not as I do. My ex despised other men who were arrogant, anyone who looked in the mirror and flexed, thought they know so much, were more successful, etc.. just sickened him...wonder why? Heh!
Jul 3 - 9AM
finallydone
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HA

I can see how it is helpful to keep reading here even though i got him out. First of all.... Barbara.... the obsessive thoughts go on and on don't they? I guess I should just expect this for awhile. But with the judgemental topic.... this made me laugh because mine was ALWAYS talking about how being judgemental was NOT COOL and how I was so judgemental of everybody. This was an every other day conversation!!
Jul 3 - 1PM (Reply to #3)
Barbara (not verified)
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finallydone

the obsessive thoughts went on for over a year for me. Hopefully yours will be shorter. Since you have read WWLP you know that they used Trance, Hypnosis and NLP to imbedded stuff in your brain and change your brain chemistry! So I HOPE you are in therapy! This might help too: http://saferelationshipsmagazine.com/hypnosis-for-repairing-the-aftermath-of-pathological-love-relationships He probably was so afraid of BEING JUDGED he projected it everywhere he could. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ Free articles & information for abuse victims: http://abusesanctuary.blogspot.com Effective Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals http://one2one4victims.webs.com/
Jul 2 - 9PM
Barbara (not verified)
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typical

For Narcs its o.k. for them to be judgmental But it's NOT O.K. for them to be judged! He was being purposely provocative and drawing attention to himself. Typical. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ Free articles & information for abuse victims: http://abusesanctuary.blogspot.com Effective Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals http://one2one4victims.webs.com/