The last thing I ever wrote to my EXNBF
The last thing I ever wrote to my EXNBF
I am wondering when this is going to come back and bite me in the ass!
To summarize the story - I left him in February. Since then he kept coming back. We'd hook up every once in a while and talk about getting back together. He would D&D every time. The last time, I just asked myself what I was thinking, and he became a MAJOR ASSHOLE telling me he couldn't get past some stuff between us (specifically, he couldn't stand that I dated another guy 3 months after the 1st time we broke up and that I told him I didn't want to end up like the girl he dated for 10 years and disappeared on - I wanted to get married). He also said "believe me, you are better off without me". I got tired of the mind games.
I got fed up with him BLAMING ME and texted 4 messages in immediate succession:
1 - If you were going to abandon me again, you should have had the courtesy to let me know. Don't show up for any more booty calls. Oh wait - I am just a whore to you anyway. I'm changing my number.
2 - This is what you wanted, I hope you are happy.
3 - I hope you move. I am tired of your mind games. Every time I give you and inch, you kick me in the teeth. You are not capable of love. You never loved me. I get it now. I was just a lay and an accessory to you. that's how I will remember you and our relationship.
4 - And you are so full of shit. I never did anything to you except FORGIVE all the shit you did to me. You just wanted to f*ck me a couple more times when you thought I was moving on. God forbid Amy have a life without you. You are a loser and a f*ck up. You are right, I am better off without you. Just like Cathy.
I picked all the stuff that I knew would upset him. I immediately called Verizon and had him blocked from calling or texting.
I am afraid this will come back to haunt me. I don't feel bad for doing it at all. We just live in the same neighborhood and he drives by frequently (to see if I have another man there). I have thought about renting a Porsche or an Aston Martin to park in the driveway over the weekend just to torture him- he already freaked out when there was an M5 during the day once (the day he called me a whore, slut, white trash...).
He can't stand for me to have any negative opinion of him. My biggest worry is running into him and him demanding that I take it back. I have rehearsed in my head saying "I meant every word" and walking away.
Maybe I am thinking about it too much.
Amy
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Barbara
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Carolyn
Manage Your Anger Safely ! LOL
Amy
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Debra
Amy
Debra
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Amy, you're trying to get
Thank you
Amy
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T-SHIRTS...
You're right, Lisa
Showing we don't care is the BEST revenge.
NMN
Yeah you're right.
Very good points....
I'm 90% sure my ex read this
betteroff
okay, thank you! the