playing the victim
playing the victim
So here's what it looks like . I moved out a little over a month ago . I have never asked for him to pay my car payment but he has offered to pay this month and 2 more months after which I don't think is bad seeing that he's only paying $300 for our daughter ,he claims both of my daughters but is only the biological father of the younger one.We haven't been to court just yet over child support, I did file paperwork but waiting.
Anyways I just need to vent ...
Today I emailed him asking him for a little bit of money for the next 2weeks . He's mad because things are tight and because when I moved out I took my car and he had to buy one which made him "broke" which I happen to know its not him buying the car that left him totally broke ,he did that by acting like he's a "millionaire" .
Here's the first email.
I will give you $400. that is all... (The car payment is $375 !)
other than this I am broke for two weeks as far as you are concerned... I have been broke really since I bought that car and until I get back on my feet you are going to have to solve problems yourself except for the car payment..
which by the way, I took today off and now I have spent it all cleaning house, you could have offered, but you don't think of helping like that I guess.
and the second . . .
I knew you needed help with the car and made up reasons and excuses to help you...
I wish you could have done the same for me, instead I am under constant mental stress because I am broke, because I have to " wait for Friday " for everything, and I am missing work again because the stress is just too fucking much...
I can't believe you managed to do this to me again... you still figure out ways to help destroy me instead of help build me up.
He's the one being Destroyed ! Why should I be the one to help him clean his house ?? I hate taking money from him other than the girls are concerned because he only gives it to me so he has someone to blame for his money problems and so he still feels in control of me !
Awww it already feels better to type it out .