Refinancing and the N
Refinancing and the N
Well, I've been posting on here for awhile now so I won't tell the whole sob story. But I just got a message from my mortgage broker saying they can't lock me in again unless he puts something in writing that he will show up. Big Surprise. And I don't really blame them. They have a business to run and can't waste time and money setting up a loan and a closing date when the guy keeps stalling.
So now... if he won't respond to the e-mail where I asked him flat out if he intends to show up (I didn't tell him about the mortgage message or he will just use that to control further) then I have to go back to the lawyer and start pushing it that way. Wonderful. I was trying to avoid being nasty and going legal... but I think I have no choice at this point.
He has not responded to the e-mail. Yet. But he did take more stuff with him when he left on Wednesday and is planning to come back either "today or tomorrow" for more.
Any of you have any experience with this? I keep think he's digging himself a hole, because he hasn't paid anything in three months and is taking more and more stuff out. We are not married. So if it goes all the way to court and I have the child needing his stable home and the good paying job... and this jerk has taken all his stuff out and NOT paid. Isn't there a pretty good chance a judge would decide I get to keep it rather than forcing me to sell it? I know it could go both ways... but it seems the most logical. Any thoughts?
I am soooooo incredibly mad at this point. I feel sad less and less. Every once in awhile and especially when he shows up and does his pity party thing... but the longer he drags this out and causes me not only emotional harm but possible financial harm.... I'm learning to overcome. Right now I'm really really mad!!!
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