walking in his shoes
walking in his shoes
ok, STBXNH asks me to walk in his shoes, the way he has walked in my shoes. I am not really sure how he has walked in my shoes, but I have given up on that one. He wants me to walk in his shoes with the settlement and visitation. He is acting like the suicidal, despondent man, who can hardly make it through each day. The whole thing makes me angry because he still does not accept responsibility for the position he finds himself in. His GF is his gardian angel, and I am the unsympathetic wife. I don't question that he misses the kids, but please. Never once did he put his children first. They were always put behind the needs of him and his GF.
I am afraid the lawyer is going to fall for his facade. He knew all along what he had to do to put his family back together again and he didn't. Why do I have to walk in his shoes? THe only shoes I need to walk in are my kids and mine. Am I right? He asks me not to see him as only evil. I don't see people so black and white, but his behavior over the last year has been very selfish and cruel.
Court on friday. Any advise would help.
mallory
Mallory
barbara...
I see your lips moving...
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mallory - he's an a**hole