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#1 Jun 2 - 7PM
malloryforest
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Barbara

Hi Barbara,

I need to write out a list of examples of when my husband put his needs before the well being of our children. I am working on the list, and honestly, it is very emotionally difficult to write. I was wondering if I could have you take a look at this list when I am done writing it.

I know you are still recovering, therefore I DO NOT want to put any extra pressure on you. If it is not the right time, I completely understand. Your health comes first, and your recovery comes first.

If you are up for a quick look, could I send the list to a personal email address. I am afraid STBXNH could find this site, or his GF could find this site. I would like to keep it as confidential as possible.

Please let me know if you are up to it, and please feel free to say you are not in any shape.

Thank you very much,

Mallory

Jun 5 - 9AM
malloryforest
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Barbara...

I really need to hear you say it. You have read my list. This is a really sick man I am dealing with! I am not just trying to see him this way. His actions are sick!
Jun 5 - 9AM
malloryforest
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Barbara...

I really need to hear you say it. You have read my list. This is a really sick man I am dealing with! I am not just trying to see him this way. His actions are sick!
Jun 5 - 2AM
Barbara (not verified)
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mallory

if any court falls for this - which is DOUBTFUL - you have good reason to appeal. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ Free articles & information for abuse victims: http://abusesanctuary.blogspot.com Effective Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals http://one2one4victims.webs.com/
Jun 4 - 3PM
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mallory

check your email ;)
Jun 4 - 5PM (Reply to #8)
malloryforest
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barbara...

Thank you again. In your experienced opinion, do you think I have any case for sole custody???????
Jun 4 - 6PM (Reply to #10)
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mallory

HELL YES!! Geez what you wrote? It's like he's BEGGING for you to have sole custody. Push for it. He would only want joint to lower his support payments, IMHO - and he needs to help accountable. He's a complete piece of dung! And a scary person to have around impressionable children.
Jun 4 - 9PM (Reply to #11)
malloryforest
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Thank you

Thank you Barbara. You know, I kept on questioning myself until I wrote that list. Once the list was in front of me...it was very hard to deny his abuse. So this is classic Narcissism? I pray the courts can see what is really going on here. He is so cunning and manipulative. He likes to play it out that he had to let us move because he was so concerned about my mental health, and that he has been abandoned by his family. Do you think the courts will fall for this BS?
Jun 4 - 6PM (Reply to #9)
Barbara (not verified)
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mallory

HELL YES!! Geez what you wrote? It's like he's BEGGING for you to have sole custody. Push for it. He would only want joint to lower his support payments, IMHO - and he needs to help accountable. He's a complete piece of dung! And a scary person to have around impressionable children.
Jun 3 - 12AM
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mallory

I will try to get to it when I can. My energy doesn't last very long lately. [email protected] ~~~~~~~~~~~~ Free articles & information for abuse victims: http://abusesanctuary.blogspot.com Effective Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals http://one2one4victims.webs.com/
Jun 4 - 11AM (Reply to #6)
malloryforest
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Barbara...

I just want to confirm you received my email. My lawyer had difficulty opening the attachment, so I want to make sure you didn't run into the same difficulty. Thank you again for your time. Please take your time.
Jun 3 - 12AM (Reply to #2)
malloryforest
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barbara...

Thank you very much. Take as long as you need. I am very, very, very grateful.
Jun 4 - 11AM (Reply to #3)
Barbara (not verified)
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got it

it opened fine. I am still having problems concentrating but I am working on it. Thanks ~~~~~~~~~~~~ Free articles & information for abuse victims: http://abusesanctuary.blogspot.com Effective Coaching for Victims of Pathologicals http://one2one4victims.webs.com/
Jun 4 - 11AM (Reply to #5)
malloryforest
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Thank you

Like I said....no pressure. take as much time as you need. thanks
Jun 4 - 11AM (Reply to #4)
malloryforest
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Thank you

Like I said....no pressure. take as much time as you need. thanks