Family of abusers
Family of abusers
One thing I find very disturbing is how his family is behaving towards me and the children. I feel as though they condone the abuse and his behavior because they don't stand up to him.
Mom in law supported her son having an affair. She supported the way he treated me by never challenging him, never calling to see how the kids and I are doing... nothing! SHe has three grandchildren that have moved to the other side of the country, who she rarely gets to see anymore, and she just submits to whatever her dear son says. Never once has she said, I am so sorry for what my son has done. Nothing. She never calls to see how the kids are doing. If I call her, she cries and tells me she wishes I would call her more, but she never picks up the phone.
Sister in law has been more supportive, yet none of them stand up to him. If it was my child or brother pulling all of this crap on my daughter in law or sister inlaw or grandchildren, I would definitely be calling my son on his behavior, and I would be reaching out to the children!
STBXNH is bringing GF home next weekend, and they are all going to meet her. We are not even divorced, and they are not only meeting the GF, she is spending the weekend at my mother in law's house!
Not only do I feel this is a betrayal to me, I feel it is a betrayal to my children! I sometimes feel that people who don't stand up to the abuse they witness, are no better than the abuser. Am I just filled with too much anger to not give them some slack? I feel betrayed by all of them, not just him. THe fact that they are willing to meet her is such a slap in the face!
I know I have to put this all aside and move on, but it just seems like one blow after another. I am sticking with the no contact, except for kid issues. It is easier when I have no dialogue and don't know all the BS that is going on, but some days I wake up and I am blown over by the betrayal!
Family of Abusers
I think you have made a
Thank you
Mallory
Mallory & Denise
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nolongercontrolled
family
I hear you
mallory
Monster in law
Mallory
Good to hear
twillight zone here too.