Feeling the tug
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May 19 - 2PM
Feeling the tug
OK. Now I know you will think I am sick, but there is part of me that is feeling the tug. Since I said I want the divorce, I am questioning myself. He said he would give up the GF, begrudingly, and I turned him down. I think I need the reinforcements that I didn't give up too early, and that past behavior predicts future behavior, and even if he did give up GF and come back, eventually it would bew the same old thing. I know all of this, I read all the articles, yet there is still that tug. There is still that part of me that questions myself. There is still that part of me that is jealous of GF. I know...totally crazy!!!!!
This tug is normal right?
Malloryforest!
mallory
I understand
Mallory
mallory - that's the trauma bond & VERY normal
The Tug
if she is so unimportant
unimportant
What's important to him...