Speaking of horses
Speaking of horses
....(no offense to animal lovers, I'm one myself)...but what is with an N's incessant need to beat a dead horse beyond recognition?
I don't know....this may have been discussed previously, but this absolutely drove me crazy in my relationship. He just would not let things DIE. And the littlest mistakes I made were turned into a HUGE deal, to be brought up over and over and over again.
He STILL is doing it in his efforts to win me back (funny enough), by saying he hopes that I can forgive him, he's forgiven me for MANY mistakes. OMG, these were such trivial things, and some of those things other people were responsible for, not me. Like he HATES that a family member kind of 'snubbed' him, (in his mind), and he will still to this day use that against me. I just want to tell him to shut up already, that had nothing to do with me, so stop making me pay for it every time we argue!
I've never done anything remotely serious to jeapordise our relationship like HE has. The beating to death of everything and making you pay over and over for the same mistakes is just maddening.
So glad I have CUT that out of my life. How in the world do we put up with such unreasonable behavior???
(I know the answer, just ranting)... :)
I stopped one of those rants
rants
agreeing with them
Good for you!
beating a dead horse