20 missed calls

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#1 Oct 8 - 6AM

Sea

20 missed calls

From a strange number overseas. It could be a fraud call but something amiss the caller calls exactly every hour interval for the past 1 day stopping for what looks like bed time so it looks like the caller is trying to be funny.

I never had this problem as my cell phone is listed as private. Less than 100 people uses this number. I have another publicly listed work cell phone.

I cannot believe it is from Mr Liquid Nitrogen he never does such thing and not in a million years i think he would waste time doing prank calls. I dont even believe he would google or check me at Narc recovery sites and I sign off as Sumiko on my posts.

Now the calls are still going on strong I mute my phone. I did not once pick it up.
This too will pass. If that cold liquid nitrogen drop me text i will know.

Keep all of u posted.

Hugs
Sumiko

#2 Oct 9 - 6AM

Sea

WTF! It starts again!!

The same number starts dialing again after what looks like a bed-time. If it is really the N he must have gone insane!! I would ignore ignore ignore!! Trying to provoke me to send him a text? Fat hope!

#3 Oct 9 - 8AM (Reply to #20)

newbegginings

Wow

Wow, that's weird. Can u call your phone company to trace number? They will do this, not even tele marketers call that often over a short period of time. And u thought he wasn't a desperado!!! Pfffft, it's kind of pathetic huh? Keep us posted Timtam

#4 Oct 9 - 8AM (Reply to #21)

Sea

It cant be telemarketer or

It cant be telemarketer or anyone trying to reach me because all the call are approx an hour apart until pranster goes to bed. The telco says its overseas number they cant trace. Narc travels to all kinds of exotic places for some stupid offsite meetings. The country code trace to a country famous for romantic beach resorts. I dont have a single friend from that place. I never even been there. Why would anyone wants to call international call to play prank? Fraud calls unlikely they go random and give up after a few tries and time at hourly interval? Even more unlikely. It feels more and more like its really Narc. But its really crazy cos he never does such thing and it was him who d&d me not other way round. I am simply trying to move on.

#5 Oct 8 - 11PM

Sea

Ok prankster stopped. No text

Ok prankster stopped. No text from anyone to admit. So its a unresolved mystery! Could be the Narc, cannot verify. Whatever, delete those miss calls and life goes on :)

#6 Oct 8 - 10AM

Crazy Train

Sea, it's definitely HIM.

Sea, it's definitely HIM. Mine gave me 72 missed/blocked calls the day I dumped him. This is what they do. Mine was so crafty, he downloaded an app on his phone where you can make it look like he's calling from a different phone number than his own.....and the ass uses my HOME number. Yeah, like my house is calling my cell. LOL

#7 Oct 8 - 11AM (Reply to #17)

Sea

Your home number calling your

Your home number calling your cell? Oh god! I guess only a scrambled egg brain can program that and thinks its logical!! That Narc wants this game ok let him dial all he wants am going to read this forum enjoy my rosella tea then go to bed for a gd nite sleep. Unless he text me to admit or i will never know but well i can guess its him!

#8 Oct 8 - 9AM

sadderbutwiser

it's him

they do this! mine did it too. after i started to ignore him, "suddenly" i started to get restricted calls. for a while, the phone would keep ringing cause he was hoping i would talk to him. then when he realized i wouldn't answer, he resorted to calling and hanging up right away from a restricted number. i am positive it was him cause the calls would start as soon as i drove by his house after work. SICK!! they truly are messed up!

#9 Oct 8 - 10AM (Reply to #15)

Sea

My god! This shocks me. If u

My god! This shocks me. If u all would see how arrogant, big snob mr liquid nitrogen is!! So proud, fold his arms, chest out, legs apart! Looks like nite club bouncer (but is not tall or big). The mannerism, telling people off all the time especially service staff! I have to apologise to people all the time! It doesnt helps that he is a senior guy in a co. He throw away woman like used table cloth. I have never seen him looking bk. If its really him I am really shocked!! He is bloody insane!

#10 Oct 8 - 7AM

Hunter

You think they don't keep

You think they don't keep tabs.. But they do.. When I first started speaking to the dog whisperer again after 20 yrs!! He knew way o much about me not to snooping!! They are "Insane" Hunter

#11 Oct 8 - 8AM (Reply to #11)

Sea

Hunter

If its him. He is garanteed insane in additional to his NPD diagnosis. Lets see how long this prankster can keep doing this. Curious to know when u met you exN after so long u found out he has been snooping u for entire time or just initial period?

#12 Oct 8 - 8AM (Reply to #12)

Hunter

I just read the article on

I just read the article on Hare his studies of a psychopath! UGH!!! My narc is such no doubt because of his psychopath mother!! I hate him but let me tell you I hate her even more! We were seniors in high school and thru a few years in college! We were each other first loves. His dad died in a plane crash 1 yr before i met him. ( they were buddies) We were in love then.. I believe he was normal then too!! His mother didn't like the bond we formed and did everything to break us apart!! From stalking, harassing him ,me ,his friends, my friends. Looking back I still shake my head... She won... I heard after our break up he went after her many times saying you made me lose" Hunter" .. He moved in with a friend and his family to finish college because of his motherly abuse. I didn't see him for a few years after that!! He resurfaced with a blonde girlfriend and at that point that's when his Narcness came out full force!! He never abandoned mommy dearest, now at this time the three of them were on the hunt for Hunter!! I married my husband moved and never saw him again for 15 years!! The lovely FB connected us!! That's how this whole mess came to be.. During our conversations I realized he knew way too much about my life.. Again I didn't see him for 15 yrs I didn't even know he lived in NYC... But him he knew about me .. I didn't think much about it but now looking back he was always lurking!! So you see you think they go away, you will never get rid of them 100% until they are dead ! We have the power to lose touch with them and ignore. How their Scrambled Eggs operate we can not control!! It's him calling you, it's in your best interest to keep doing what your doing and ignore!! The more I learn the more these Whack jobs amaze me! Hunter

#13 Oct 8 - 10AM (Reply to #13)

Sea

Hunter

I think he tracks u so merticulously because u are his first love and he was upset about not able to hold on to u. For me I met Narc when he is at a ripe age of late 40s. He has zillions of woman under his belt and he admitted more than 50 official GFs! I am just one of them. I have never seen him doing anything to chase bk or disturb or even snoop at his exes. Many still attached to him in on/off cycles. A few got away and he seems to have gaslighted himself to deny their existence and never looked back. He is so arrogant so full of himself and like an energizer bunny always busy on career or party or woman. I could hardly imagine him dialing me hourly from another country. He has gone mad if its really him. The only thing that might trigger this could be i am his longest relationship and we did not start off as lover we got 2 years of so call friendship. Prankster still calling looks like its great fun dialing my cell phone at hourly interval.

#14 Oct 8 - 6AM

newbegginings

See , Sea ...

Yes interesting... I told you, they always make contact, we never know when....but they will, just when think it is never going to happen... POW!!

#15 Oct 8 - 6AM (Reply to #7)

queenren

vigilence

i hate that they may contact us again. I feel like I need to always be looking over my shoulder. If my narc/sociopath ex contact me I hope its when he is completely and utterly outter my system. I am thinking of leaving the country coz of this. I can't relax and I feel like I dont have anywhere safe here to heal. I feel like I was in a nightmare the whole time I was with him. The stress in my stomach was horrendous I didnt know whether I was coming or going. I was confused the whole 5 wasteful yrs. I feel like a prisoner in my home coz he knows where I live. I cant relax here coz he may come knocking at my door. Hes done it before when I've f'd him off.

#16 Oct 8 - 8AM (Reply to #9)

Sea

Please take care!

My heart goes out to you. Please take care, find ways to protect yourself. Does personal protection order helps? Hugs

#17 Oct 8 - 7AM (Reply to #8)

newbegginings

Queenren

I hope he is not dangerous, maybe change yr number and move house if is possible. I am sorry to hear your fear and sadness. Strength to you Timtam

#18 Oct 8 - 6AM (Reply to #2)

Sea

Timtam

This is hilarious! I cannot imgine the 50 yo N doing kiddy prank call! bored on business trip? Or trapped with some boring woman at resort? But after 20 calls and more than a day it does looks like someone trying to be funny. No one else will use this phone to contact unless close friends and family. So a red flag it could be the Narc. I always guess he would contact on text or email or phone but not keep dialing at hourly intervals like pranksters. I will fall off the chair if its really him. What a scramble egg!

#19 Oct 8 - 7AM (Reply to #3)

newbegginings

Sea... The best bit is....

Sea, the best bit is these physco's don't know we are onto to them! Let us know love timtam x

#20 Oct 8 - 8AM (Reply to #4)

Sea

He knows i found out about

He knows i found out about his NPD diagnosis so he is aware i know. But its crazy he would do such thing. Well, for now no evidence its him. Let it be no interest to find out unless he text me to admit it.

#21 Oct 8 - 7PM (Reply to #5)

newbegginings

Sea

Does he know he has Npd? Wonder if mine knows what he is? I know he thinks he is gods gift to the universe, but I wonder if he knows he is not quite right?

#22 Oct 8 - 11PM (Reply to #6)

Sea

My exN is clinically

My exN is clinically diagnosed in his home country. I saw the Narcissist personality disorder label mentioned in the report. Thats how i start googling and found my way here. exN didnt agree with the diagnosis but he knows he is not normal. Easily bored with woman. No feeling of love. All these he is aware. As to how he is diagnosed i cant disclose here but of course not his choice to be diagnosed! I am in Asia and never heard of NPD my whole life and I dont even know i was with a disordered all the years!!

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