12 Days NC - One Hideous Hoover (Need to post here because I'm ready to BLOW)

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#1 May 28 - 12PM
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12 Days NC - One Hideous Hoover (Need to post here because I'm ready to BLOW)

Friday Night: 9 Days NC: My children were home alone and my cell phone rang. The number came up as a blocked number. My home number shows up as blocked, YES,I picked up assuming it was the kids.
Ugh! Ick! Yuck!
When I learned it was not my boys, addmittedly, I did not hang up...
I was silent. He began a monologue that was nothing short of ASTOUNDING.... As the bullshit diarrhea came spilling out of his hideous mouth I just listened...
He proclaimed he was going to quit his very high powered job in Sept.2014 to go live in Paris for a year. Wanted to rent an apartment on the cheap, be an artist and learn the language. He said he has lived a very blessed life and wanted to add another element of "INTEREST" to his story. He claims all of the interestting people he has ever met have lived in Paris... (What a freak)WHATEVER...
My response... "You should go..."

When he didn't get my typcial response, which would have been,"What about our plans? What about us?" He continued with his next freak show topic...

It went something like this:
I want to tell you a story,(another LIE) that’s actually true,(NO, IT'S ANOTHER LIE) about an event (A BULLSHIT STORY I'M GOING TO CREATE)that happened on this week I want to share with you...
He claims he took his xWife to lunch to give her a belated Mother's Day present (a cookbook, and she doesn't cook)and to try to establish a 'peaceful, but armslength way forward. He has been saying she wants him back after her 2 year relationship with her Lesbian girlfriend ended.
He claimed the lunch was pleasant, no drama, they spoke about their girls and worked out the summer schedule, etc.
Then he said he received a call from her the next day and she UNLOADED on him asking "What was yesterday all about, why would you give me a gift and make the effort to see me etc.? She accused him of being selfish, it's always about him and what he wanted, blah!blan! (NARC INJURY)He claims he was "Just trying to do the right thing..."

The the POS has the nerve to ask me,"What are your thoughts?"

YOU MOTHER F***ER, why on earth would you be asking me?
U N B E L I E V A B L E..............
I just said,"I'm sure you'll figure it out without my input.. Please stop calling me. I have to go."

I don't know what is going on, nor do I want to, but I see his mental state is beyond Narcissistic.What is a person who lies and lies and lies for no reason at all? It's beyond a NARCISSIST.. What is it?

Here is what is happening inside of me... I have been lied to for years and years. Even when we were just friends, he was lying. Everything is and was a lie. I believed so many lies. It's disturbing and crazymaking.

I want to call and SCREAM at him. But I will not. He doesn't deserve my energy or effort. It will please him.

At the risk of sounding just like a NARC, I feel I WON!!!
On FRIDAY, I answered my phone, he tried to suck me into his vortex of fucked-up-ness and I didn't bite... I DIDN'T bite!!!
I'm moving this week and my address, phone numbers and email addresses (other than work) will be changing.

WHAT A CHEEZY SLEAZY SCUMBAG!!! ADI-F'ING-OS MUCHACHO!

Embracing this moment of anger... Feels better than feeling sad and hurt...

Free

May 28 - 3PM
Hunter
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Mission accomplished!! Why

May 28 - 4PM (Reply to #13)
FreeMe (not verified)
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Hunter, you are very correct...

May 28 - 1PM
TruthbeginsToday
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Turning a corner..... yep,

May 28 - 2PM (Reply to #9)
FreeMe (not verified)
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Truth... Tactical... That's the word...

May 28 - 9PM (Reply to #10)
TruthbeginsToday
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He has even said, "I always

May 28 - 11PM (Reply to #11)
FreeMe (not verified)
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Truth...

May 28 - 12PM
spinning
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Free, what can I say...

spinning

May 28 - 1PM (Reply to #3)
FreeMe (not verified)
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Ahhh, my dear friend Spinning....

May 28 - 10PM (Reply to #7)
Lacey
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Sometimes you do "win"

May 28 - 4PM (Reply to #4)
Allesandra
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Now I understand

May 28 - 7PM (Reply to #5)
thebigpayback
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me too, toward the end i just

May 28 - 7PM (Reply to #6)
Allesandra
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The big pay back

May 28 - 12PM
Allesandra
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I would