Is my bf really a narcissist

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#1 July 7, 2017 - 10:29am

Is my bf really a narcissist

I am 7 days into no contact. He was starting his Silence treatment to me. I found on FB where he was messaging a female saying he was looking for new friends. I sent him a message saying it was over and he has not tried to contact me.
I'm not proud to say that I have been in this relationship for 13 years. 3 of the years we lived together. Then one of the many times he started a fight over me going to see my grandkids. I moved out. He had another lady ready to step in. He married her in 3 weeks. He contacted me again in 3 months and talked me into believing he had made a mistake and really loved me. For 10 years he has lied to me about everything when the truth was better than the lie.
I have been reading and trying to find out everything I can about narcissist. So much I find is like they are talking about him.
Right now my emotions are telling me maybe I'm wrong maybe he really does love me. How could he be so loving to me and not really love me.
From everything I've read he will try to contact me again. I know I have to stay strong and not respond to him at all. But my heart wants to hear from him so bad.
I know I'm rambling but there's so much going on in my mind I can't think straight.
Thanks for listening

July 8, 2017 - 12:55am

You can't think straight...

July 8, 2017 - 7:37pm (Reply to #17)

you can't think straight

Judie

July 7, 2017 - 10:15pm

Judie13years...

FeFe

July 8, 2017 - 7:45pm (Reply to #2)

Fearless

Judie

July 8, 2017 - 9:25pm (Reply to #3)

Great job, Judie...

FeFe

July 9, 2017 - 2:32pm (Reply to #4)

Great job

Judie

July 9, 2017 - 7:26pm (Reply to #5)

Judie... I hear you on the fear

FeFe

July 11, 2017 - 8:53am (Reply to #6)

I hear you

Judie

July 11, 2017 - 9:25am (Reply to #7)

Judie... take care..

FeFe

July 11, 2017 - 12:00pm (Reply to #8)

fearless

Judie

July 11, 2017 - 3:02pm (Reply to #9)

Lisa E. Scott, question about PM...

FeFe

July 12, 2017 - 12:50pm (Reply to #10)

One more day NC

Judie

July 13, 2017 - 12:34am (Reply to #11)

you are doing well...

FeFe

July 14, 2017 - 3:28pm (Reply to #12)

Help

Judie

July 15, 2017 - 8:13am (Reply to #13)

Judie...grand stand!

FeFe

July 15, 2017 - 6:40pm (Reply to #14)

accidentally

Judie

July 15, 2017 - 9:14pm (Reply to #15)

That's a good thing...

FeFe

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