Is my bf really a narcissist

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#1 Jul 7 - 10AM
Judie13years
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Is my bf really a narcissist

I am 7 days into no contact. He was starting his Silence treatment to me. I found on FB where he was messaging a female saying he was looking for new friends. I sent him a message saying it was over and he has not tried to contact me.
I'm not proud to say that I have been in this relationship for 13 years. 3 of the years we lived together. Then one of the many times he started a fight over me going to see my grandkids. I moved out. He had another lady ready to step in. He married her in 3 weeks. He contacted me again in 3 months and talked me into believing he had made a mistake and really loved me. For 10 years he has lied to me about everything when the truth was better than the lie.
I have been reading and trying to find out everything I can about narcissist. So much I find is like they are talking about him.
Right now my emotions are telling me maybe I'm wrong maybe he really does love me. How could he be so loving to me and not really love me.
From everything I've read he will try to contact me again. I know I have to stay strong and not respond to him at all. But my heart wants to hear from him so bad.
I know I'm rambling but there's so much going on in my mind I can't think straight.
Thanks for listening

Jul 8 - 12AM
Lisa E. Scott
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You can't think straight...

Jul 8 - 7PM (Reply to #17)
Judie13years
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you can't think straight

Judie

Jul 7 - 10PM
Fearless
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Judie13years...

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Jul 8 - 7PM (Reply to #2)
Judie13years
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Fearless

Judie

Jul 8 - 9PM (Reply to #3)
Fearless
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Great job, Judie...

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Jul 9 - 2PM (Reply to #4)
Judie13years
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Great job

Judie

Jul 9 - 7PM (Reply to #5)
Fearless
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Judie... I hear you on the fear

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Jul 11 - 8AM (Reply to #6)
Judie13years
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I hear you

Judie

Jul 11 - 9AM (Reply to #7)
Fearless
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Judie... take care..

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Jul 11 - 12PM (Reply to #8)
Judie13years
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fearless

Judie

Jul 11 - 3PM (Reply to #9)
Fearless
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Lisa E. Scott, question about PM...

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Jul 12 - 12PM (Reply to #10)
Judie13years
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One more day NC

Judie

Jul 13 - 12AM (Reply to #11)
Fearless
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you are doing well...

FeFe

Jul 14 - 3PM (Reply to #12)
Judie13years
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Help

Judie

Jul 15 - 8AM (Reply to #13)
Fearless
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Judie...grand stand!

FeFe

Jul 15 - 6PM (Reply to #14)
Judie13years
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accidentally

Judie

Jul 15 - 9PM (Reply to #15)
Fearless
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That's a good thing...

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