Hoovered.....Unreal-I can't believe it.

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#1 Apr 24 - 10PM
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Hoovered.....Unreal-I can't believe it.

So back in the middle of February around my birthday she pulls out all stops after I had blocked her. She has a former roommate text me and ask to call her. She has her brother in law call me. She calls from blocked numbers over and over. I never picked up but I listened to the messages. They became more and more desperate. Finally she just shows up at my house. I opened the door (big mistake). She shows me a tattoo on her back of my initials. I think to my self - wow this is for real - she really means it this time. We end up back in each others arms in no time flat. After about three weeks she starts to become distant. Then I get a single text that just says "you aren't the man I think you should be". "The love fizzled out a long time ago". "I try to hang in there but I just can't keep the spark alive." "It's not fair that I just keep you around as a safety net." I didn't even respond. I just hit the block button. Bear in mind that this is probably the 8th time I've been successfully hoovered. That was 5 weeks ago. Tonight I get an email asking if I want to go to Hawaii (like we originally planned 5 months ago).

Are you kidding me?????? Like nothing ever happened. Like she didn't just rip my heart out for the millionth time. Her doing this has erased any doubt I ever had about her being PD. This is so f'd up. Now it makes sense all these guys in her past trying desperately to keep in touch. She was always throwing out the bait to see if anyone would bite. My heart is racing right now. How and when will she ever stop. So many people have told me she would be back and I didn't believe it. Not for a second. I thought how could she even try after a text like that and then nothing. She got a tat. What now? I'm scared.

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Apr 26 - 5PM
roontherocks
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4 more attempts today...It's getting worse

Apr 25 - 6PM
roontherocks
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She is ramping it up

Apr 25 - 6PM (Reply to #3)
Domo
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You already won

Apr 25 - 3PM
Domo
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You said it!