Are Narcs oblivious to the pain the inflict?

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#1 Jan 15 - 4PM
Amordemariposas
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Are Narcs oblivious to the pain the inflict?

I am in tight in crazy making behavior. I have asked to have my needs met over and over in many different ways. Seemingly falling on deaf ears. Nothing ever changes or moves forward, always in reverse or goes to a new level of low. Then I am apologizing for him not meeting my basic needs of feeling love, respected, accepted, appreciated. I am then told I do this to myself, my actions and mine alone reflect the state I am in. In a way he is right, I know... Definition of crazy is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results, but come on! Can they not see you are hurting because of their reaction or lack thereof? I know the answer just reinforce it and have done.

Need out but walking away with shirt on my back but maybe my sanity

Jan 17 - 6PM
dangeroustonight
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Personally I think they're well aware

Jan 16 - 2AM
Journey
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No empathy = both oblivious

Journey on...

Jan 17 - 1PM (Reply to #23)
Amordemariposas
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I am reading everything I can

Jan 15 - 10PM
IncognitoBurrito
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That they

Jan 16 - 10AM (Reply to #12)
Deidre99
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this is excellent, ib! love

Jan 17 - 8AM (Reply to #13)
IncognitoBurrito
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Thanks

Jan 17 - 9AM (Reply to #15)
talktothehand
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I know

Jan 17 - 10AM (Reply to #20)
IncognitoBurrito
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^^This.

Jan 17 - 11AM (Reply to #21)
talktothehand
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^^This

Jan 17 - 9AM (Reply to #16)
Deidre99
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they don't 'care' about us,

Jan 17 - 9AM (Reply to #17)
talktothehand
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D

Jan 17 - 11AM (Reply to #19)
Journey
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Talktothehand

Journey on...

Jan 17 - 10AM (Reply to #18)
Deidre99
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Yea, I think it was talked

Jan 17 - 9AM (Reply to #14)
Deidre99
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I absolutely agree. Love how

Jan 16 - 10AM (Reply to #11)
terri
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IB - this is an excellent

Believe in yourself!
Terri

Jan 15 - 10PM
Hunter
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The bottom line is "IT'S ALL

Jan 15 - 9PM
BagofCrazy
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They aren't oblivious; they

Jan 15 - 8PM
Pumpkin
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I agree

Pumpkin

Jan 15 - 7PM
onwithmylife
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Newbies listen up!

Jan 15 - 9PM (Reply to #6)
Journey
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Well said OWML!

Journey on...

Jan 15 - 5PM
EL8
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I felt the same way. I asked

Jan 15 - 5PM
Goldie
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THE BLOGS ON THE PATH FORWARD

Jan 15 - 5PM
brinamarie
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Sick enough, they feed off of

Jan 17 - 1AM (Reply to #2)
Celebrity NS
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Walking away with just the shirt on my back...