Are Narcs oblivious to the pain the inflict?
Are Narcs oblivious to the pain the inflict?
I am in tight in crazy making behavior. I have asked to have my needs met over and over in many different ways. Seemingly falling on deaf ears. Nothing ever changes or moves forward, always in reverse or goes to a new level of low. Then I am apologizing for him not meeting my basic needs of feeling love, respected, accepted, appreciated. I am then told I do this to myself, my actions and mine alone reflect the state I am in. In a way he is right, I know... Definition of crazy is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results, but come on! Can they not see you are hurting because of their reaction or lack thereof? I know the answer just reinforce it and have done.
Need out but walking away with shirt on my back but maybe my sanity
Personally I think they're well aware
No empathy = both oblivious
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I am reading everything I can
That they
this is excellent, ib! love
Thanks
I know
^^This.
^^This
they don't 'care' about us,
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Talktothehand
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Yea, I think it was talked
I absolutely agree. Love how
IB - this is an excellent
Believe in yourself!
Terri
The bottom line is "IT'S ALL
They aren't oblivious; they
I agree
Pumpkin
Newbies listen up!
Well said OWML!
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I felt the same way. I asked
THE BLOGS ON THE PATH FORWARD
Sick enough, they feed off of
Walking away with just the shirt on my back...