i tried to stand up to the N what a joke !
i tried to stand up to the N what a joke !
I broke limited contact today big time! I got upset as i heard how 'he' had taken his girlfriend on a lovely wkend away.... It upset me how he doesnt give me a penny for our son becos he is 'skint' but can afford to do nice things with her... I no i was being childish and over reacted, i just kindly asked him if he could possibly start paying only what he could afford towards our boy.
Hes got me over a barrol, i cannot go through a solicitor or csa as 4 years ago i took a loan out for him for his car, he has 18 mnth left of payments to pay, so if he isnt happy with any of the arrangments he has said he will not pay this loan!! Honestly there is nothing i can do, if he doesnt pay it i really really will struggle becoz its in my stupid name!
I just feel like im banging my head against a brick wall, he can do what ever he likes and get away with it for another 18 months... I really dont no if i can take another 18 mnths of this, he hs also got nasty saying he will tell people exactly what i am like! Ive told him i dont care what he says to people i can handle that but i cant handle him not paying me this loan.
So back to picking my self up and trying to be strong! This is so hard, how can i be so deluded to of loved a man who is capable of being so heartless i shud never of even contacted him for some money either what a pointless thing to do!!!. :-( xxx
Get that money back
Hey guys, thanks every one
jemjem
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Get that money back
Get that money back
JemJem
P.S Jem
That brought back some
Look!! Instead of spending
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I did do that hun, there was
jemjem
You mean
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Is the car in your name? If
No everythings in his name
jemjem
The two cars which he has
When I met the narc/pimp I
Most of us have done similar...
Just a thought...
I read through this now jem,
Also ^^^^^
Personally...
Your situation sucks. Ok.
Jem jem
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