i tried to stand up to the N what a joke !

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#1 Dec 12 - 5AM
hope29
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i tried to stand up to the N what a joke !

I broke limited contact today big time! I got upset as i heard how 'he' had taken his girlfriend on a lovely wkend away.... It upset me how he doesnt give me a penny for our son becos he is 'skint' but can afford to do nice things with her... I no i was being childish and over reacted, i just kindly asked him if he could possibly start paying only what he could afford towards our boy.

Hes got me over a barrol, i cannot go through a solicitor or csa as 4 years ago i took a loan out for him for his car, he has 18 mnth left of payments to pay, so if he isnt happy with any of the arrangments he has said he will not pay this loan!! Honestly there is nothing i can do, if he doesnt pay it i really really will struggle becoz its in my stupid name!

I just feel like im banging my head against a brick wall, he can do what ever he likes and get away with it for another 18 months... I really dont no if i can take another 18 mnths of this, he hs also got nasty saying he will tell people exactly what i am like! Ive told him i dont care what he says to people i can handle that but i cant handle him not paying me this loan.

So back to picking my self up and trying to be strong! This is so hard, how can i be so deluded to of loved a man who is capable of being so heartless i shud never of even contacted him for some money either what a pointless thing to do!!!. :-( xxx

Mar 28 - 9AM
Gezza5
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Get that money back

Mar 28 - 9AM
hope29
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Hey guys, thanks every one

Mar 28 - 9AM (Reply to #49)
Used
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jemjem

Mar 28 - 9AM (Reply to #50)
hope29
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Oh right,its good though isnt

Mar 28 - 9AM
Gezza5
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Get that money back

Mar 28 - 8AM
Gezza5
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Get that money back

Mar 28 - 8AM
sucked-in
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JemJem

Mar 28 - 8AM (Reply to #45)
sucked-in
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P.S Jem

Mar 28 - 2AM
hope29
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That brought back some

Dec 12 - 10AM
Hunter
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Look!! Instead of spending

Mar 28 - 7AM (Reply to #37)
IncognitoBurrito
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^^^^

Mar 28 - 7AM (Reply to #38)
hope29
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I did do that hun, there was

Mar 28 - 8AM (Reply to #42)
Used
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jemjem

Mar 28 - 8AM (Reply to #41)
IncognitoBurrito
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You mean

Mar 28 - 8AM (Reply to #39)
IncognitoBurrito
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Whoops!

Mar 28 - 8AM (Reply to #40)
talktothehand
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Peanuts

Dec 12 - 9AM
Im_always_fine
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Is the car in your name? If

Dec 12 - 9AM (Reply to #30)
hope29
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No everythings in his name

Dec 12 - 10AM (Reply to #32)
Used
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jemjem

Dec 12 - 10AM (Reply to #33)
hope29
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The two cars which he has

Dec 12 - 12PM (Reply to #35)
Im_always_fine
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When I met the narc/pimp I

Dec 12 - 12PM (Reply to #34)
indifferent
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Most of us have done similar...

Dec 12 - 10AM (Reply to #31)
Deidre99
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Just a thought...

Dec 12 - 9AM
Deidre99
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I read through this now jem,

Mar 28 - 7AM (Reply to #28)
IncognitoBurrito
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Also ^^^^^

Dec 12 - 9AM
indifferent
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Personally...

Dec 12 - 8AM
Done sourcing
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Your situation sucks. Ok.

Dec 12 - 8AM
Brit
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Jem jem

Dec 12 - 9AM (Reply to #24)
hope29
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Ive just reposted a more

Dec 12 - 7AM
Hunter
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Lets start by telling us the