If we pay attention, they tell us who they are....
If we pay attention, they tell us who they are....
Let’s see, if I had really listened and paid attention I would have seen him for the disrespectful jerk he really was. How did we all get so swept away by narcs!!!!
Let’s see shall we? The narc's greatest hits…..er, I mean, RED FLAGS FROM THE VERY START!!
“I’m an asshole”
“I’m difficult”
“I’m complex”
“I don’t know why you put up with me”
“In my previous job I shared a hotel room with my married female coworker and my wife could hear her in the background when we were on the phone. I didn’t try to hide it because it was platonic and we continued to share a room on subsequent business trips. I have taken so much shit for that over the years I may as well have an affair…..”
“I thought you were smarter than that. I like to surround myself with intelligent people.”
“You probably don’t want to hear about a fight with my wife… same old shit.”
Nevermind the fact he was cheating on his wife and I was naïve enough to think it was the first time like he said it was! I actually trusted him?! That we were both just caught up in something we didn’t plan! Hell yes he planned. He strategically planned.
And I could swear he mumbled BITCH under his breath one of the first times we had sex….. Yep.
So I ask you people – WTH was I thinking???!!!! These were all early red flags. And then I was sucked into his vortex more and more. What fun…..
Here’s to being narc-free!
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"People say I'm insesitive
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as Maya Angelou said
"I will dote on you, but I will also ignore you."
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I hate these assholes
When I asked him why he said
"No one wants to be in a relationship with me."
"They only want to be 'just
BAM.
JACKPOT!
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