The Dance of the Narcissist; Delight, Devalue, Degrade, & Discard

The Dance of the Narcissist; Delight, Devalue, Degrade, & Discard

Education, understanding, & acceptance is your POWER and FREEDOM

Once you get who and what they are; YOU then make a CHOICE.

Do I want someone in my life who is USING me and has no LOVE or VALUE for me OR do I want myself and my life back?

They do NOT change, they do NOT care about you and eventually they will destroy ALL that is real, good, and valuable in your life.

They are blood sucking vampires, vultures, maggots, parasites looking for a host.

Do you want to be a host?

This is a choice, either you cut your losses, call it a day, and go NC.

OR......

You go a few more rounds and let then take MORE.

They usually come back for more even years later. The HOOVER is NOT a compliement.

We do not NEED them, we are looking for love. They need us because they are looking for supply.

NC may be painful for a short while, YET, it is nowhere the pain of staying with them and allowing them another crack at your soul.

They are relentless and will not stop until every last crumb is taken from your table.

Break YOUR addiction to them by going No Contact, NC is freedom from bondage.

They do not want YOU; they want what YOU have.

Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and CALL it a day from the narc.

YOU WILL have a better way of life if YOU want it.

There is NO quality life with a Narc.

GO NC TODAY!

Together we can do what we cannot do alone.

God bless,
Goldie

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May 22 - 10AM
Lisa Mitchell
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blood sucking vampires

May 22 - 10AM (Reply to #19)
LoserFree
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Actually my blood is the only

Aug 20 - 4PM (Reply to #20)
anasdia
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Loser Free

May 20 - 10AM
Rising Dawn
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Yes, you all deserve better!

May 15 - 6PM
petite7heaven
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Yes to NO CONTACT!

May 11 - 12AM
eyeswideopen35
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Perfectly said, thanks

May 10 - 11PM
invisible
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The Dance of the Narc

May 10 - 7PM
heritage
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Like it Goldie! I like the

May 10 - 7PM
Jillie
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Love the Title!

May 10 - 6PM
Monarch
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I Choose...

May 11 - 9PM (Reply to #10)
sexy72
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YAY!!!!

Jun 2 - 11PM (Reply to #11)
Liladopted1
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It's been 1 year on 6/19/2012

May 10 - 6PM (Reply to #9)
Goldie
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Great News Monach

May 10 - 3PM
Sparrow
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I love this Goldie! The

May 10 - 3PM
Allie
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May 10 - 12PM
chris53
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Bravo...well said! :-)

May 10 - 11AM
Canada
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Yes, yes and yes! I feel a

May 10 - 9AM
Layla
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EVERY single word of this is...........

May 10 - 10AM (Reply to #1)
spinning
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Ditto, ditto, ditto,

spinning

May 11 - 9PM (Reply to #2)
sexy72
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I hope so too!

May 27 - 11PM (Reply to #3)
LindsayM
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Ignore,ignore,ignore..