Is he really trying to "hoover" me ... how interesting!

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#1 May 3 - 6AM
rosa_lita
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Is he really trying to "hoover" me ... how interesting!

I had read something on the forum and in Lisa's book about narcissists "hoovering" their victims but I was quite surprised to find it happening to me!

My last words to this man before blocking his e-mails were something along the lines of "I never want to see you again in this life or the next". I never believed that he would risk his dignity by contacting me again.

To my surprise yesterday in my junk e-mail folder there was his name with the title indicating that he would soon be back in town and looking for a booty-call from his local "soul-mate" a.k.a. "back-up supply" (that is me apparently).

I double deleted very quickly so that I couldn't read the contents of that mail! It is my BEST revenge against the monster in human form.

Can anyone tell me if there's a way to block calls on my I-Phone? I can't figure it out. Obviously if I see his number I won't pick up but I would like to try to block if it's possible. I bet that tricky bastard will try calling me from a different number anyway.

I finished reading Lisa's book and while there may be some lingering emotions of sadness, I am so OVER being used like a dirty rag by this 'man'. I am moving into anger and despite the fact he is personality disordered, I'm beginning to hate him. I can't wait to feel indifferent to him.

Take care y'all and guess what? They really do hoover! It's gross, icky and disgusting. I used to think it was so romantic. He just couldn't stand not seeing me, how 'dorable. I used to think we were destined to be together. Thank god we are not!

May 3 - 9AM
TarHeelBlue
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Yep, he will use

May 3 - 9AM
Hunter
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Blocking., I think there is

May 3 - 8AM
Sparrow
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He has no dignity to lose.

May 3 - 8AM
Janie53
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Ross lita

May 3 - 8AM
Deidre99
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As an aside, I can't believe

May 3 - 8AM
Deidre99
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Hoovering has nothing to do

May 3 - 7AM
Needshelp
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As far as blocking calls on

May 3 - 6AM
rosa_lita
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P.S.: Reminder to self!

May 3 - 6AM (Reply to #2)
Alissa
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"No scanning my in-box