Why you will never get closure from a narcissist

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#1 Apr 19 - 11AM
Deidre99
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Why you will never get closure from a narcissist

Because they want your door to always remain open. So whenever they see fit, they can walk right back in, and take more supply from you. If they give you closure, they fear you may just shut that door on them for good.

Food for thought... ;)

Apr 20 - 8AM
Harper03
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I've always let my exN back.

Apr 20 - 8AM
c_jennings
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mine is the opposite...

Apr 20 - 8AM
onwithmylife
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Deidre

Apr 19 - 9PM
ruby01 (not verified)
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Very true

Apr 19 - 1PM
Janie53
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Closure

Apr 19 - 12PM
knighty2035
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I agree

Apr 19 - 12PM
Monarch
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Keeping the door open...yes,

Apr 19 - 12PM (Reply to #20)
Used
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monarch

Apr 19 - 12PM (Reply to #21)
Monarch
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Awww. Yes. That's it. See,

Apr 19 - 12PM (Reply to #22)
Used
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monarch

Apr 19 - 11AM
Emma
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I don't think the narc will

Apr 19 - 11AM
Sparrow
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They won't give closure,

Apr 19 - 12PM (Reply to #2)
Monarch
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I think this is what mine was

Apr 19 - 12PM (Reply to #17)
Deidre99
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When we break NC...we

Apr 19 - 12PM (Reply to #3)
spinning
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Bingo, Monarch..

spinning

Apr 19 - 12PM (Reply to #4)
Monarch
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I guess in my grief, I keep

Apr 19 - 12PM (Reply to #9)
Deidre99
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Monarch, the problem isn't

Apr 19 - 4PM (Reply to #10)
Monarch
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I see. That must be my

Apr 20 - 7AM (Reply to #15)
onwithmylife
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monarch

Apr 20 - 7AM (Reply to #16)
Monarch
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It's such a long story why I

Apr 19 - 5PM (Reply to #11)
Deidre99
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you're such a sweetie!

Apr 19 - 8PM (Reply to #12)
Monarch
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I was adopted. I always felt

Apr 19 - 9PM (Reply to #13)
Deidre99
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Oh monarch...that's it! That

Apr 20 - 6AM (Reply to #14)
Monarch
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Oh my gosh!!! REALLY? Crying

Apr 19 - 12PM (Reply to #7)
TNR1
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You can't comprehend it

Apr 19 - 4PM (Reply to #8)
Monarch
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Wow. I'm afraid I'm still

Apr 19 - 12PM (Reply to #5)
Monarch
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Denying kids from having

Apr 19 - 9PM (Reply to #6)
butrfly
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I think you get closure when