I have got to be out of here by 8:45....how could this possibly be hard???

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#1 Mar 27 - 7AM
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I have got to be out of here by 8:45....how could this possibly be hard???

you are describing my life for the last 2 years
March 27, 2012 - 8:01am — joyvbfla
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Hi ........ When I got back to his house he was calm and then he started again. I was eating these candies I eat sometimes, he wanted a couple of them and then said, "Thanks alot you bitch, now you have got me addicted to sugar".....IS HE ACTUALLY BLAMING ME FOR HIM EATING SOME CANDY??? All of your posts really got to me. I went to sleep last night at his house. He started again this morning ......He says stuff like "if you want to be my wife, there always needs to be underwear in my drawer....go get some for me NOW" Its about 15 steps, if that to the laundry room, he can't go himself???
Now today, I have to do what he says all day....run errands for him, be his helper. He will give me one more chance to act "like a wife" because I never help him or act like a wife when there is work to be done.
I understand complety your post here, sunrising, as that has been my life. Especially the past 2 months. I leave, get in my car, go sit in a parking lot and cry because I don't know where to go. That is also why I packed all my stuff and got an apartment, in january. The problem is, like you say, I have been so programmed and he calls and I go back. Well, of course I look like a crazy person to everyone he talks to......I leave like that, then come begging back 1 week later. Now there is also the threat of "I am going to call my girlfriend if you don't do what I want"

So, he is at the gym right now swimming, and I have the choice to get my stuff and leave......or run around all day as he orders me around.
Why would I do that?? He spent over 6 hours on Sat. with another women while I was shopping with his kids.....then both saturday night and sunday morning, he goes to church without me (taking the kids) because he does not want his women supply to see him with me!!

This is so fucking absurb........I will post on here all day, but I must get out. I should call that phone number and see if there are counselors around at a shelter.
Joy

By the way, I know it sounds ridulous, but I post all these stupid things he says to get feedback on how crazy he really is. It has been my normal to hear this bullshit for the past 2 years, It can be very confusing. He said the most awful things to me yesterday..........told me how worthless I am, I don't help.....he does not want a wife, he wants a servant

Mar 27 - 11AM
Layla
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Joy.

Mar 27 - 12PM
sunrising
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Your husband is brainwashing you with fear and keeping you busy

Mar 27 - 8AM
onwithmylife
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You are

Mar 27 - 8AM
Sparrow
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I beg of you to leave now and

Mar 27 - 7AM
Ophelia
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Leave. Go. This is not a

Mar 27 - 7AM
Hunter
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Pack a bag .. And Drive to

Mar 27 - 7AM
dudette
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Joy

Mar 27 - 8AM (Reply to #2)
Goldie
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This is right Dudette