Why do some Ns get married and others don't?
Why do some Ns get married and others don't?
I doubt my ex N will ever get married. He's almost 40 and he's never had a serious relationship, he doesn't even count the long-term ones as serious. Now I doubt he'll ever find a prospective wife because he currently seeks the company of young sluts he'll never see as marriage material.
Does that mean he's more self-aware? Maybe he knows he's troubled and marriage doesn't suit him. He decided not to drag me further into his hell and let me go because he knew he'll screw me over. Does that sound like a conscience? Or maybe he knew he can't give up some flings on the side and he knew I'm not one to tolerate that. Maybe he's just looking for a potential wife that will be too naive to see the bullshit that he's doing. Or maybe it's because he has too many women in his life and he just finds that dandy and perfect in the meantime. Why complicate the perfect setup with a nagging wife?
Maybe those that do get married don't have as much success with women so he needs constant secondary NS from a wife.
Good question-Why a Narc Enters into a Relationship or Marries
Good question
He wasnt trying to save you
I was married for 7 years
I think so