Yes, he wants you to call him and say""why would you defriend me.. Boohoo" So he can hurt you yet again..
Move on pretty lady .. It really is time...
Hunter
And you really also need to get rid of everything that has to do with him. EVERYTHING. Pictures, cards, gifts, etc. This was really hard for me because at first I wanted to salvage what I thought was "good" in the relationship, and keep these things. But then I realized that the whole thing was such a sham. And those reminders only brought me pain. It was difficult to do, but getting rid of all that stuff gave me such a sense of freedom and was so empowering. It helps you to keep LOOKING AHEAD, not behind you.
Thanks, I'll proceed to do that over the weekend. I already did put a box full of stuff in the storage room, but I shall clear up a few more things. Also I'm thinking about redecorating the flat a bit, moving some furniture around and stuff!!
in a nutshell, Ruby. Plain and simple.
Block his ass.
You can do it and we will help you and you will be so happpy that you did.
Look, you're about to get a job that you've wanted for a long time. Concentrate on that...don't ALLOW HIM TO TAKE THAT FROM YOU! YOU OWN THAT!!
Love,
(not) spinning. BECAUSE I FINALLY SAW THE TRUTH AND REALIZE FREAK BOY'S NOT EVEN WORTH A LITTLE SPIN!
Ruby, what if he were a psycho killer? Would you want the attention of a psycho killer or would you feel safer if that psycho killer was moving on, and didn't give a crap about you. Does this analogy make any sense to you at all.
It seems like you are saying you know he sucks, you know he is bad, you know he won't make you happy, but you want him anyways. It really does sound like that. I have been there myself.
What do you want?
Why do you want it?
What are you afraid to let go of?
Is it good for you?
Will it bring you peace and contentment?
What would you tell a friend to do in the same situation?
I think denial/bargaining of what is is holding you captive. I recognize it because I have had it myself. Are you truly willing to move on and get angry now, because after denial and bargaining (for scraps) comes anger.
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your punishing yourself continuely
take a bath paint your toes buy yourself something watch a favorite movie eat your favorite food
do something for you honey
you have to stop beating yourself after he is gone
now your abusing yourself
self care sweatheart stop tearing yourself up more
heal, stay close to us. your allowing this. you need to switch your focus on to you
your beautiful
your intelligeint your worthy of every beautiful thing in this life
he is one person in this huge world
who knows whats going to happen for you < great things>
until you pick yourself up, say this sucked and pick up
it isnt better for he isnt different with her
he is the same piece of shit
you dont deserve to suffer stop this hurt and start by doing things for you
Yes, he wants you to call him
Movin on
Thanks, I'll proceed to do
Hunter is telling the truth
spinning
Thanks girls... I guess I
Ruby, what if he were a
Ruby
oh good point hunter