Female Narc or a Male Narc

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June09
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Female Narc or a Male Narc

Who is more destructive female narc or a male narc.

My Ex Narc Shoe line has collapsed and she projected everything against me and said it was my fault and she has lost 10,000 AUD on a contractual fees to a lawyer in england because she and her business partner fell out with each her .She gave me a call and wanted to know some thing and i was busy as she mentioned to me about some money so thinking it was important i gave her a call back she did another projection when i told her “if you want me to help you should explain me the situation" and she hung up the phone when i called her back and said i dont like people hanging up on me and she said the reason she hung up the phone was because i used to hang up the phone right after she said bye without me saying me bye.It was more like a shock attack,makes you wonder is that some thing really wrong as a normal person would be perplexed.Now i know for a fact she is trying to tarnish my name among common friends like using her close friend to talk stuffs about me to more people adding numbers to her list against me as a person.i find it very disturbing and taunting,feel like maybe i should be take revenge against her put her in place or totally ignore her.One of my psychologist friend said to me to engage with her politely and avoid confrontation.i am a bit confused as i know she can go to an extreme of vindictiveness and ruin my reputation.I dont know how to handle this situation.by the way i used my contact in london to figure out the cost for her lawyer and he informed my contact that it was no were close to 10,000 AUD.Now she will be using her bestfriend to tarnish my name and she has used her bestfriend before to say bad things about me to common friends..What do i do...Last when she spoke to me she said she does not want to talk to me and hung up the phone but it was she who called in the first place.I feel i am stil not over the rut wondering what attack will come from her next.Female Narc seem to be more dangerous than the male once for an obvious fact that they can use their weaker sex charm with the third party....

Sep 4 - 11PM
June09
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Help with a female narc

Can some one help here please.
Sep 4 - 11PM
June09
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Help with a female narc

Can some one help here please.