hahaha if I don't laugh, I'll cry!

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#1 Apr 11 - 9AM
Deidre40
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hahaha if I don't laugh, I'll cry!

Guess who just CALLED me? He normally just texts. He can't take calls at work. (remember?) Well, he called saying that the equipment isn't working, and while they fix it, he thought he'd call me. WOW. He has NEVER done this, since starting this job.

He said...''Whatcha up to Dee?''

I said...''nothing.''

He said...''what's wrong?''

I told him his texts this morning were that of someone who is my friend. Which is fine. I said...we can just be friends, if this is what you like.

He said...''Oh come on Dee. I was tired this morning, it wasn't intentional. You KNOW I love you. I wouldn't have chased you all weekend...Don't be paranoid, Dee''

I said...I am not paranoid.

Then....he point blank asked me...''are you happy with your decision to go back to me?''

Good grief, I wasn't expecting this. I shouldn't have answered the damn phone!

I said...''Um...yeah.'' I said are you? He said...'why do you answer my question with a question?' and he laughed. He said...''the only good thing about my life today, is that you and I are back together.''

Then, he told me a funny random work story, and I couldn't help but laugh. It felt good to laugh with him again. it's been a while.

Ladies...I wasn't expecting a call from him. Every time I get strong, he does something I don't expect.

Apr 11 - 3PM
Hunter
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I have 3 Things to say, DELETE,DELETE,DELETE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Idealk
Apr 11 - 2PM
onwithmylife
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For Deidre 99,

YOU KNOW what he is like, WHY do you go back for more punishment??????????????
Apr 11 - 2PM
Journey
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Ok, I'm going to try something here

What I see Michele do, hopefully I am not out of bounds by doing so, but this is my impression: Guess who just CALLED me? He normally just texts. He can't take calls at work. (remember?) Well, he called saying that the equipment isn't working, and while they fix it, he thought he'd call me. WOW. He has NEVER done this, since starting this job. - - a control tactic in which he will give you a special treat in order to confuse you into believing he cares after withholding that in his earlier texts = translates into intermittent reinforcement to 'train' you and control your responses and second guess your instincts. I told him his texts this morning were that of someone who is my friend. Which is fine. I said...we can just be friends, if this is what you like. He said...''Oh come on Dee. I was tired this morning, it wasn't intentional. You KNOW I love you. I wouldn't have chased you all weekend...Don't be paranoid, Dee'' - - he is implying that you can't think for yourself or question his love, that your perceptions are wrong and then accused you of being paranoid. Then....he point blank asked me...''are you happy with your decision to go back to me?'' Good grief, I wasn't expecting this. I shouldn't have answered the damn phone! - - I agree with you about that! I said...''Um...yeah.'' I said are you? He said...'why do you answer my question with a question?' and he laughed. He said...''the only good thing about my life today, is that you and I are back together.'' - - HE ANSWERED YOUR QUESTION WITH A QUESTION! He did not answer yours at all by the statement he did make. Then, he told me a funny random work story, and I couldn't help but laugh. It felt good to laugh with him again. it's been a while. - - ah yes, a change of subject to make sure to bring up the good feelings again to further confuse you Ladies...I wasn't expecting a call from him. Every time I get strong, he does something I don't expect. - - THAT IS A TACTIC to keep you guessing, questioning, doubting and off balance. Deirdre, this is how it looks to me and I am sorry if what I say hurts you in any way because I know you would so much rather see some good in him than not. xo

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