What is great sex anyway?

This topic comes up frequently as you may imagine it would within a relationship with a Narcissist. Sex is often used as a manipulative and bargaining tool.

I often hear: The sex was the best, the greatest, the most intense, dangerous, thrilling, and of course I also hear the opposite, it was the worst, or a combination of, it was the greatest; now the worst.

What does Great mean, anyway?

Great:

I have had great talks with my son
I have had great walks with my dog
I have had great talks with my fellow Moderators
I have had great laughs over foolish mistakes I have made
I have had great breakthroughs which allow me greater peace of mind
I have had great inspirational moments with members in my support groups
I have great aha moments within my soul

Hmmm great sex great sex great sex, where does that fit into the scheme of things these days.

Somewhere between a great hike in the woods and that high I get when I step on the scale and realize, I finally lost that last 10 pounds.

Great talks with my son...........great sex...........

NOT EVEN CLOSE

Together in Recovery,
Goldie

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Dec 25 - 1AM
aurora
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So very true

Dec 10 - 4PM
kelliejean123
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sex?

Nov 28 - 11AM
ipodrunner
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Good sex?

Nov 20 - 12AM
backhome2u
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Agreed!

Nov 17 - 4AM
7 of mine
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I'd say that sex with my EXNH

Nov 8 - 5PM
femnarc'd
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sex

Nov 16 - 6PM (Reply to #10)
laurendailys48
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My experience with sex with a narc

Nov 6 - 1PM
Goldie
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More on the topic of Sex and Self Esteem:

Nov 8 - 11AM (Reply to #4)
talktothehand
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Sex & Self Esteem

Feb 4 - 2PM (Reply to #8)
Epiphany2014
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So agree with this

Nov 16 - 6PM (Reply to #7)
laurendailys48
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so true

Nov 11 - 2PM (Reply to #5)
libre2013
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agreed

Nov 24 - 4PM (Reply to #6)
kath55
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narc sex

Nov 6 - 1PM (Reply to #1)
Used
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The earth has only ever MOVED

Nov 24 - 1PM (Reply to #3)
shock and awe.some
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BaHaaaaaa! Too funny

Nov 11 - 2PM (Reply to #2)
Heartbroken78
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Lol used, brilliant haha ;-)