When can you feel sure that the Narcissist is gone forever?
We draw people to us
When WE have unfinished business.
It's the nature of the energy and power within us.
Did you ever notice how you run into people or hear from them when you either were thinking of them or have a "need" or desire?
It's the same thing when your time with them is "truly" over. I'm not talking about them being with someone else, I'm talking about you being done.
When we are done with someone, finished to our core, there is no longer a need or desire to draw them to us.
I often will see someone I used to know one last time, I'll run into them and we both realize, there's nothing there, nothing left.
I call those encounters, closure encounters. You know you have come full circle.