The Dance of the Narcissist; Delight, Devalue, Degrade, & Discard
Education, understanding, & acceptance is your POWER and FREEDOM
Once you get who and what they are; YOU then make a CHOICE.
Do I want someone in my life who is USING me and has no LOVE or VALUE for me OR do I want myself and my life back?
They do NOT change, they do NOT care about you and eventually they will destroy ALL that is real, good, and valuable in your life.
They are blood sucking vampires, vultures, maggots, parasites looking for a host.
Do you want to be a host?
This is a choice, either you cut your losses, call it a day, and go NC.
You go a few more rounds and let then take MORE.
They usually come back for more even years later. The HOOVER is NOT a compliement.
We do not NEED them, we are looking for love. They need us because they are looking for supply.
NC may be painful for a short while, YET, it is nowhere the pain of staying with them and allowing them another crack at your soul.
They are relentless and will not stop until every last crumb is taken from your table.
Break YOUR addiction to them by going No Contact, NC is freedom from bondage.
They do not want YOU; they want what YOU have.
Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and CALL it a day from the narc.
YOU WILL have a better way of life if YOU want it.
There is NO quality life with a Narc.
GO NC TODAY!
Together we can do what we cannot do alone.
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