What are the best steps to take for safety when ending the relationship if Narcissist has abusive past?

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I have finally ended a 5 year LDR with a Narcissist. He has an abusive past with women but never was abusive to me, saying I was his fresh start. After he saw it was truly over, he texted me terrible things and said this is why men treat women how they do. I am concerned he will fly out here to do something vindictive. I have a security system being installed this week and have blocked his email address but didn't block his texts so that I could sort of monitor what he texts me to gage his anger level. That being said, I will absolutely not respond if he texts me. What additional steps do you recommend, I am afraid of him, which is why it took so long to make the final break. Thanks.

Jan 18 - 2PM
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