Fairytale beginning, felt very loved and then all of a sudden when I was relaxing into the love story, unexpected verbal abuse and occasional physical abuse. Was compared to a whore, had to justify my every move, every link with anybody, was told my male friends only wanted to have fun with me and that all my female friends wanted to use me for their personal reasons. Alternately treated as love of life and soulmate vs disgusting whore and continuously disloyal fiend. Still trying to come to terms with the whole story after getting feedback from a few of his other targets. Still convinced I can change him but preserving myself nevertheless.
Things are getting better though. He is less nasty about my friends, less prone to verbal abuse. Maybe after all narcissists can be cured or he was not really one.