Profile Info

Age Range

40-50

My Story

I thought I had it made when I met him. It was only after 6 weeks that I found out some things he had been hiding from me. From day 1 my intuition was telling me something was amiss. I had many red flags but chose to ignore them, hoping that it was just my imagination. No concrete evidence. I said to myself "I need evidence" But even after I found the evidence, my mind could not comprehend that he could do such things. eg. back stabbing me, and degrading me to several women (online), at the same time he is declaring his everlasting love to me and asking me to marry him. Then the abuse came face to face, when he started name calling, devaluing me and using me as a scapegoat for everything. It was at this point that I could see a cycle that whenever I asked him a question about anything, he would begin the abuse. If I didn't express my opinion, or emotions, or ask him any questions, all would be(supposedly) fine. The verbal/mental abuse got worse, threats and violence, to the point I had to plan my exit strategy. I knew without a doubt I could not, and should not, ever endure such abuse.

Gender

Female

History

Member for

27 weeks 1 day