Are there any red flags or signs for realizing if my "N" boyfriend is cheating? I have a feeling in my conscious now and then about certain things he is saying...I feel like what he says sometimes are not true, and if I was to question him, he would flip the conversation on me, and pick a fight with me some how or some way. I've heard other woman talk about experiences they have been in the past with controlling men that resemble my boyfriend. Each story I have heard they end up saying that they found out that they were cheated on by them, i would like to find this out for myself but I dont think he can ever get caught in any kind of act. Narc's are smart, I know that much...and they can out smart people with a blink of an eye..but I know there are techniques that I can master to out smart him, as well as, catching him in his tracks!!
I know you have a busy website going on and this might not even be "goldie" but i really would appricate if some one can get back to my question... I am only 19 years old and ive been in this crazy realtionship for almost 3 years. Ive disapeared two times already, and ended up coming back. I know I need help.