My narcissist sonys

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#1 March 13, 2017 - 2:54am

My narcissist sonys

I just wanted to share my thoughts on mothering a narcissistic son. I don't agree that my son is a narcissist by any particular way i raised him. In fact he was always fun loving and loved me to death as a child. But in the last 3 to 4 years he all of a sudden started changing his behavior. It kept getting worse every day. I was so distraught by his behavior and so hurt and weary that I didn't know where to turn. I finally did a lot of research about his behaviors and what they meant. Particularly his behavior towards me and those closest to him. To make a long story short, my son is not the same son that I had known before. He is like a calculated robot with no heart and no feelings. He hates my guts and has told me so. The mental and emotional abuse from him on me became so bad and unbearable that I had a nervous breakdown and was told by my doctors to have no contact at all with my son anymore. This was the hardest thing I have ever had to face in my life but to protect my own sanity and life I had to make that decision. He has sought revenge on me for this by turning my whole fyamily against me. I used to find all of this almost unbelievable and not capable of happening but have now come to accept the situation for what it truly is. Now I have no relationship with my son or my sisters and feel very lonely and misunderstood but through lots of prayer am getting through it one day at a time. I myself am not a narcissist. I am Bipolar however which makes it at times even harder to deal with. I just wanted to share this information because all fingers seem to point to the mother of the narcissist son as being the culprit and it just isn't always so. Thank you for listening to my story.