All About Him Forum

The All About Him Forum is specifically for newcomers just beginning to understand why narcissists behave the way they do and why they are incapable of genuine love. This forum is focused on working the first three steps to recovering from a narcissist.

1 – Understand It
2 – Get It Out
3 – No Contact

The first three steps often overlap and many of you may find yourself going back and forth between them. This is understandable and perfectly acceptable. No one should beat themselves up for having to repeat a step. "No Contact" often takes several repeated attempts. We must remember, it is about PROGRESS, not PERFECTION. We must celebrate our progress and encourage one another to keep pushing forward.

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But he only did it once
by Hunter » December 1, 2014 - 12:58pm
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1,165 by Janie53
December 2, 2014 - 6:22am
Help! How to deal with random run in...
by Bassy » November 30, 2014 - 2:08am
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934 by Viola22
December 2, 2014 - 1:38am
12 week support group begins
by Goldie » December 1, 2014 - 11:39pm
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418 by Goldie
December 1, 2014 - 11:48pm
what about female narcissists?
by emptypromises4u2keep » November 30, 2014 - 5:09pm
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691 by Krammer
December 1, 2014 - 7:55am
New here and hurting so much.
by katefromny » November 27, 2014 - 3:32pm
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1,319 by Goldie
November 29, 2014 - 9:49am
Wishing you all Thanksgiving Blessings
by Goldie » November 26, 2014 - 9:42pm
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479 by Radiant
November 27, 2014 - 1:02pm
Doubts......
by Goldie » November 21, 2014 - 3:17pm
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985 by Used
November 27, 2014 - 12:08pm
curious...did anyone else's N change their number?
by broken23 » November 19, 2014 - 9:32pm
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1,232 by elinor
November 26, 2014 - 12:03pm
Why do I feel like I should
by Radiant » November 22, 2014 - 9:45am
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1,281 by Goldie
November 25, 2014 - 10:14pm
The power of shame
by antoinetteb » September 15, 2014 - 4:57am
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1,125 by Goldie
November 24, 2014 - 2:51pm
Nerves shot, constant shakes
by MsT » November 24, 2014 - 11:04am
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826 by MsT
November 24, 2014 - 1:57pm
How to deal or not deal with a smear campaign
by acc12 » November 20, 2014 - 7:15pm
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904 by Pumpkin
November 23, 2014 - 1:53am
Feeling very sad and lonely
by Cherub » November 21, 2014 - 6:25am
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838 by Cherub
November 22, 2014 - 9:36am
No Contact, No Drive-By's!
by Radiant » November 9, 2014 - 9:08pm
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1,198 by Radiant
November 21, 2014 - 10:05pm
A BIG Path Forward Thank You goes out to JANIE53
by Goldie » November 8, 2014 - 9:26am
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973 by Janie53
November 20, 2014 - 6:43am
So you think he is home pondering the relationship?
by Goldie » November 10, 2014 - 8:57pm
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1,382 by talktothehand
November 18, 2014 - 3:34pm
No contact & closure extra painful - we work together
by elinor » November 15, 2014 - 12:24pm
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1,061 by Lookforward
November 18, 2014 - 3:35am
New vice-FB stalking the old/new supply
by Madea1234 » November 16, 2014 - 11:08pm
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1,211 by Hunter
November 17, 2014 - 4:59pm
Thinking
by Pumpkin » November 15, 2014 - 8:44pm
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935 by Janie53
November 17, 2014 - 6:26am
Help please
by Radiant » November 15, 2014 - 7:36pm
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809 by Madea1234
November 16, 2014 - 11:16pm
Second-guessing myself
by New Life » November 15, 2014 - 10:39am
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636 by janice m m
November 16, 2014 - 7:45am
How/when did you accept they would never change?
by Thetruthwillset... » November 14, 2014 - 12:36pm
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1,076 by thebigpayback
November 15, 2014 - 4:45pm
CRAZY is as CRAZY does...
by Jammiwood » November 13, 2014 - 3:44pm
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1,001 by Hunter
November 13, 2014 - 7:02pm
The Boogie Man
by Jammiwood » November 9, 2014 - 10:33am
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738 by Jammiwood
November 13, 2014 - 3:45pm
Closure
by ambrandon7 » November 11, 2014 - 12:13am
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838 by Jammiwood
November 13, 2014 - 3:12pm
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