All About Him Forum

The All About Him Forum is specifically for newcomers just beginning to understand why narcissists behave the way they do and why they are incapable of genuine love. This forum is focused on working the first three steps to recovering from a narcissist.

1 – Understand It
2 – Get It Out
3 – No Contact

The first three steps often overlap and many of you may find yourself going back and forth between them. This is understandable and perfectly acceptable. No one should beat themselves up for having to repeat a step. "No Contact" often takes several repeated attempts. We must remember, it is about PROGRESS, not PERFECTION. We must celebrate our progress and encourage one another to keep pushing forward.

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CD BAD tonight
by stayingstrong11 » April 26, 2015 - 1:15am
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by StrongasDandelion
April 27, 2015 - 4:06am
Why wasn't I good enough for him?
by notabackupgirl » April 6, 2015 - 5:29am
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by StrongasDandelion
April 26, 2015 - 4:05pm
Back and embarrassed!
by SavingMyself » April 24, 2015 - 9:41am
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by talktothehand
April 25, 2015 - 12:51pm
Do you love a Toxic Narcissist? TWENTY QUESTIONS
by Goldie » April 23, 2015 - 7:49am
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by Goldie
April 24, 2015 - 12:34pm
On Mirroring and Cognitive Dissonance
by Goldie » April 21, 2015 - 3:39pm
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by Janie53
April 22, 2015 - 7:13am
Observe the actions of a person, rather than listening to their words
by Goldie » April 14, 2015 - 11:23am
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by StrongasDandelion
April 16, 2015 - 10:46am
I wasn't enough..
by blue1990 » April 10, 2015 - 7:28pm
6
by Hunter
April 16, 2015 - 7:58am
Out of the Blue
by omgalso » April 10, 2015 - 12:31pm
6
by tiredofthisaddiction
April 13, 2015 - 9:29am
emotional day
by stayingstrong11 » April 8, 2015 - 6:12pm
3
by stayingstrong11
April 10, 2015 - 3:07pm
First night alone
by sincerelynancy » April 2, 2015 - 1:03am
4
by Layla
April 8, 2015 - 2:23pm
something that struck a cord with me
by stayingstrong11 » April 6, 2015 - 12:29am
1
by Lorraine
April 8, 2015 - 7:14am
HAPPY EASTER TO OUR MEMBERS AND THEIR FAMILIES
by Goldie » April 5, 2015 - 12:40am
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by Goldie
April 6, 2015 - 7:44am
What Is Cognitive Dissonance?
by Goldie » April 3, 2015 - 12:58pm
3
by sincerelynancy
April 3, 2015 - 7:59pm
Annoyed with my mind.... Needing support
by stayingstrong11 » April 1, 2015 - 4:33pm
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by spinning
April 2, 2015 - 10:16am
1 year NC, 2 years after D&D, just passed him by and still i have so much Anger. Why?
by backontrack64 » April 1, 2015 - 5:11am
3
by backontrack64
April 1, 2015 - 2:52pm
Need Some Advice
by omgalso » April 1, 2015 - 11:19am
2
by ItsFinallytime
April 1, 2015 - 12:35pm
Im New here
by sincerelynancy » March 30, 2015 - 10:57pm
4
by sincerelynancy
March 31, 2015 - 8:07pm
Thinking that spending hours per day understanding Narcissism is going to fix this, set you free?
by Goldie » March 31, 2015 - 11:08am
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by Goldie
March 31, 2015 - 11:14am
He's a narc who cut me deep.
by LadyFrances » March 30, 2015 - 6:24am
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by LadyFrances
March 30, 2015 - 7:50pm
Disappointed in myself....I know better
by grneyedgrl66 » March 29, 2015 - 4:50pm
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by grneyedgrl66
March 30, 2015 - 9:49am
A letter to myself
by NicoleLoyola » March 29, 2015 - 2:35pm
1
by stayingstrong11
March 30, 2015 - 12:28am
question about aliases/different names
by friendofafriend » March 25, 2015 - 5:49pm
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by X
March 29, 2015 - 6:47pm
Narcissists LIE; You have just been Zapped by a Pathological Narcissist
by Goldie » February 24, 2015 - 12:33pm
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by Cherub
March 29, 2015 - 4:44am
Nightmare last night. Wanting to scream
by stayingstrong11 » March 23, 2015 - 9:36am
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by Cherub
March 29, 2015 - 4:37am
So here's where I am today
by NicoleLoyola » March 24, 2015 - 7:52am
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by omgalso
March 28, 2015 - 10:07am
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