All About Him Forum

The All About Him Forum is specifically for newcomers just beginning to understand why narcissists behave the way they do and why they are incapable of genuine love. This forum is focused on working the first three steps to recovering from a narcissist.

1 – Understand It
2 – Get It Out
3 – No Contact

The first three steps often overlap and many of you may find yourself going back and forth between them. This is understandable and perfectly acceptable. No one should beat themselves up for having to repeat a step. "No Contact" often takes several repeated attempts. We must remember, it is about PROGRESS, not PERFECTION. We must celebrate our progress and encourage one another to keep pushing forward.

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How to deal or not deal with a smear campaign
by acc12 » November 20, 2014 - 7:15pm
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884 by Pumpkin
November 23, 2014 - 1:53am
Feeling very sad and lonely
by Cherub » November 21, 2014 - 6:25am
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808 by Cherub
November 22, 2014 - 9:36am
No Contact, No Drive-By's!
by Radiant » November 9, 2014 - 9:08pm
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1,175 by Radiant
November 21, 2014 - 10:05pm
A BIG Path Forward Thank You goes out to JANIE53
by Goldie » November 8, 2014 - 9:26am
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932 by Janie53
November 20, 2014 - 6:43am
So you think he is home pondering the relationship?
by Goldie » November 10, 2014 - 8:57pm
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1,345 by talktothehand
November 18, 2014 - 3:34pm
No contact & closure extra painful - we work together
by elinor » November 15, 2014 - 12:24pm
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1,028 by Lookforward
November 18, 2014 - 3:35am
New vice-FB stalking the old/new supply
by Madea1234 » November 16, 2014 - 11:08pm
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1,172 by Hunter
November 17, 2014 - 4:59pm
Thinking
by Pumpkin » November 15, 2014 - 8:44pm
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911 by Janie53
November 17, 2014 - 6:26am
Help please
by Radiant » November 15, 2014 - 7:36pm
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786 by Madea1234
November 16, 2014 - 11:16pm
Second-guessing myself
by New Life » November 15, 2014 - 10:39am
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620 by janice m m
November 16, 2014 - 7:45am
How/when did you accept they would never change?
by Thetruthwillset... » November 14, 2014 - 12:36pm
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1,052 by thebigpayback
November 15, 2014 - 4:45pm
CRAZY is as CRAZY does...
by Jammiwood » November 13, 2014 - 3:44pm
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981 by Hunter
November 13, 2014 - 7:02pm
The Boogie Man
by Jammiwood » November 9, 2014 - 10:33am
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719 by Jammiwood
November 13, 2014 - 3:45pm
Closure
by ambrandon7 » November 11, 2014 - 12:13am
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808 by Jammiwood
November 13, 2014 - 3:12pm
Walking through it
by Radiant » November 12, 2014 - 11:21am
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951 by Used
November 12, 2014 - 2:30pm
Fear of change and WHY is understanding and recovering from a Narcissist so difficult?
by Goldie » November 11, 2014 - 12:18pm
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1,405 by LunaRock
November 11, 2014 - 6:07pm
Goldie's most popular Holiday Narcissist Survival Support Group begins shortly
by Goldie » November 2, 2014 - 6:36pm
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562 by truthnow
November 11, 2014 - 12:24pm
Still getting phone calls....
by Mel2192 » November 10, 2014 - 2:59am
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791 by Janie53
November 11, 2014 - 10:24am
Feeling a little low today
by frogbox » October 11, 2014 - 4:10am
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1,684 by JLS
November 10, 2014 - 11:10am
No contact? How long before i earn my chip?
by ambrandon7 » November 3, 2014 - 11:14am
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1,125 by ambrandon7
November 9, 2014 - 7:36pm
Feel like a hopeless loser who is full of anger
by Madea1234 » October 21, 2014 - 8:26am
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1,751 by ambrandon7
November 9, 2014 - 7:25pm
Working the Steps
by ambrandon7 » November 8, 2014 - 11:46pm
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463 by ambrandon7
November 9, 2014 - 11:00am
The Path Backward
by panacea » November 8, 2014 - 3:05pm
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591 by ambrandon7
November 8, 2014 - 11:02pm
For those of you on the fence about joining Goldie's group
by trouble » November 5, 2014 - 4:49pm
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613 by truthnow
November 8, 2014 - 10:10am
2 months NC...a little unfoggy can see the mirroring
by broken23 » November 7, 2014 - 10:34am
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672 by Janie53
November 7, 2014 - 5:38pm
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