All About Him Forum

The All About Him Forum is specifically for newcomers just beginning to understand why narcissists behave the way they do and why they are incapable of genuine love. This forum is focused on working the first three steps to recovering from a narcissist.

1 – Understand It
2 – Get It Out
3 – No Contact

The first three steps often overlap and many of you may find yourself going back and forth between them. This is understandable and perfectly acceptable. No one should beat themselves up for having to repeat a step. "No Contact" often takes several repeated attempts. We must remember, it is about PROGRESS, not PERFECTION. We must celebrate our progress and encourage one another to keep pushing forward.

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My heart and my head and a rant
by stayingstrong11 » February 17, 2015 - 11:05pm
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616 by betterforit
February 18, 2015 - 7:18am
Nauseated and other physical symptoms and thank you all
by stayingstrong11 » February 17, 2015 - 11:09am
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671 by Janie53
February 17, 2015 - 2:21pm
Strength... It is becoming real... And questions
by stayingstrong11 » February 15, 2015 - 10:17pm
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1,055 by stayingstrong11
February 16, 2015 - 1:28pm
The thought of him having new supply is making me want to throw up
by stayingstrong11 » February 14, 2015 - 10:59am
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1,393 by stayingstrong11
February 14, 2015 - 2:20pm
50 Shades of Grey, Pay it Forward, Adopt A Sister initiative
by Goldie » February 13, 2015 - 6:16pm
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868 by Goldie
February 14, 2015 - 10:23am
i do believe
by betterforit » February 14, 2015 - 7:25am
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507 by Goldie
February 14, 2015 - 9:52am
Day 1 of NC coming to an end
by stayingstrong11 » July 17, 2014 - 11:49pm
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1,045 by NicoleLoyola
February 14, 2015 - 8:16am
The pain coming here to write instead of unblocking
by stayingstrong11 » February 12, 2015 - 7:42pm
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802 by Goldie
February 13, 2015 - 9:06pm
Suffering at the moment
by NicoleLoyola » February 13, 2015 - 3:29pm
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610 by Goldie
February 13, 2015 - 5:46pm
Playing on your insecurities
by betterforit » February 10, 2015 - 9:41pm
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1,424 by Thetruthwillset...
February 13, 2015 - 8:26am
Haven't been on here long time!
by cutiepie24 » February 12, 2015 - 11:19pm
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517 by cutiepie24
February 12, 2015 - 11:19pm
Help! I want to send anonymous letter to OW
by run10kaday » February 8, 2015 - 3:18pm
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1,098 by Hunter
February 12, 2015 - 10:23am
Smear Campaign
by betterforit » February 12, 2015 - 8:20am
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644 by Hunter
February 12, 2015 - 10:22am
I am back here again... I am so mad at myself and ashamed and hurt.
by stayingstrong11 » February 12, 2015 - 12:41am
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976 by Hunter
February 12, 2015 - 8:51am
Removing a Narcissist from your life is an ACTION STEP
by Goldie » September 2, 2014 - 5:52pm
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757 by Goldie
February 12, 2015 - 8:25am
I am really struggling tonight
by betterforit » February 10, 2015 - 8:38pm
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536 by betterforit
February 10, 2015 - 9:27pm
When does the fantasy finally die?
by Arabella » October 14, 2014 - 11:46am
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2,081 by NicoleLoyola
February 10, 2015 - 12:42pm
I am really struggling today
by NicoleLoyola » February 9, 2015 - 12:37pm
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718 by Lookforward
February 10, 2015 - 7:00am
I finally blocked the number
by moviegal » February 7, 2015 - 5:44pm
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929 by Deidre99
February 9, 2015 - 10:18pm
I finally cried.
by betterforit » February 9, 2015 - 11:09am
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488 by betterforit
February 9, 2015 - 11:09am
NC Challenge: NoMore Facebook Stalking the Narcissist, NC Support Club for 2014 (Page: 1, 2, 3Last Page)
by Goldie » December 30, 2013 - 1:57pm
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16,212 by moviegal
February 7, 2015 - 5:58pm
50 Shades of Abuse, Sex Slave does NOT = LOVE
by Goldie » February 7, 2015 - 3:42pm
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824 by betterforit
February 7, 2015 - 5:29pm
How do you ladies
by betterforit » February 3, 2015 - 12:08pm
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988 by betterforit
February 4, 2015 - 8:10am
Ex N has left
by betterforit » February 2, 2015 - 1:39pm
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906 by betterforit
February 2, 2015 - 3:46pm
So you think the sex was so 'intense...' (Page: 1, 2)
by spinning » September 15, 2011 - 1:46pm
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14,458 by betterforit
February 2, 2015 - 3:11pm
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