All About Him Forum

The All About Him Forum is specifically for newcomers just beginning to understand why narcissists behave the way they do and why they are incapable of genuine love. This forum is focused on working the first three steps to recovering from a narcissist.

1 – Understand It
2 – Get It Out
3 – No Contact

The first three steps often overlap and many of you may find yourself going back and forth between them. This is understandable and perfectly acceptable. No one should beat themselves up for having to repeat a step. "No Contact" often takes several repeated attempts. We must remember, it is about PROGRESS, not PERFECTION. We must celebrate our progress and encourage one another to keep pushing forward.

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Really Really need support today
by NicoleLoyola » February 26, 2015 - 9:53am
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by ladylilly
March 13, 2015 - 9:51pm
hurting and feeling like giving in....need to be honest
by stayingstrong11 » March 11, 2015 - 1:10am
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by Journey
March 11, 2015 - 3:05pm
Having one of those days
by betterforit » March 10, 2015 - 12:12pm
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by betterforit
March 11, 2015 - 10:39am
Almost broke NC, but stopped when I started to panic
by reneemurphy523 » March 8, 2015 - 9:02pm
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by Journey
March 10, 2015 - 4:28pm
No response vs No contact
by Deidre99 » March 4, 2015 - 8:06pm
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by Deidre99
March 8, 2015 - 4:40pm
Gratitude for those who love you as opposed to obsession for those who don't love you!!!! ~Goldie~
by Goldie » March 7, 2015 - 10:45am
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by Goldie
March 7, 2015 - 10:45am
Are you still addicted to your Narcissist? Longing for a Hoover?
by Goldie » February 24, 2015 - 3:11pm
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by ladylilly
March 6, 2015 - 10:53pm
#DearMe
by Goldie » March 6, 2015 - 1:46pm
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by spinning
March 6, 2015 - 3:15pm
co signed a loan
by betterforit » February 28, 2015 - 8:34am
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by Hunter
March 5, 2015 - 2:31pm
my first hoover
by betterforit » March 1, 2015 - 8:47am
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by ItsFinallytime
March 5, 2015 - 9:23am
Saw my
by betterforit » March 3, 2015 - 8:20am
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by betterforit
March 3, 2015 - 12:48pm
Finally out.
by blue1990 » February 24, 2015 - 10:27am
4
by spinning
March 3, 2015 - 11:03am
Trouble with memories
by moviegal » March 2, 2015 - 4:30pm
2
by spinning
March 3, 2015 - 10:01am
I gave into contact and I'm so mad at myself
by stayingstrong11 » February 25, 2015 - 4:24pm
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by moviegal
March 2, 2015 - 5:04pm
thank you and what are you guys thankful for now that the Narc is gone
by stayingstrong11 » February 21, 2015 - 8:42pm
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by moviegal
March 2, 2015 - 4:43pm
Bad few days.... Had contact yesterday due to housing stuff
by stayingstrong11 » March 1, 2015 - 12:37pm
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by stayingstrong11
March 2, 2015 - 11:48am
Goldie's support group
by stayingstrong11 » March 1, 2015 - 6:38pm
1
by ItsFinallytime
March 1, 2015 - 6:50pm
New Support Groups w/Goldie Beginning Shortly
by Goldie » February 24, 2015 - 3:19pm
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by Goldie
February 26, 2015 - 9:48am
Sex abuse
by patricia barely... » April 13, 2012 - 8:25pm
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by Lookforward
February 26, 2015 - 9:45am
One Year Later....
by FreeMe » February 13, 2015 - 6:31pm
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by spinning
February 26, 2015 - 8:47am
Annoyed!
by betterforit » February 24, 2015 - 4:53pm
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by stayingstrong11
February 25, 2015 - 4:53pm
Does anyone know how to block FaceTime
by stayingstrong11 » February 23, 2015 - 9:48am
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by reneemurphy523
February 23, 2015 - 10:01pm
He said he would leave because Im getting too fat.....he's talking with OW
by blue1990 » February 22, 2015 - 7:29am
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by Goldie
February 23, 2015 - 11:56am
oh my gosh... I read this and tought the writer actually knew my ex...
by stayingstrong11 » February 22, 2015 - 3:13pm
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by thebigpayback
February 23, 2015 - 11:49am
This getting
by betterforit » February 19, 2015 - 4:09pm
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by Pumpkin
February 22, 2015 - 2:44am
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