All About Him Forum

The All About Him Forum is specifically for newcomers just beginning to understand why narcissists behave the way they do and why they are incapable of genuine love. This forum is focused on working the first three steps to recovering from a narcissist.

1 – Understand It
2 – Get It Out
3 – No Contact

The first three steps often overlap and many of you may find yourself going back and forth between them. This is understandable and perfectly acceptable. No one should beat themselves up for having to repeat a step. "No Contact" often takes several repeated attempts. We must remember, it is about PROGRESS, not PERFECTION. We must celebrate our progress and encourage one another to keep pushing forward.

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So here's where I am today
by NicoleLoyola » March 24, 2015 - 7:52am
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by omgalso
March 28, 2015 - 10:07am
Old Pictures
by nurdnarehgum » January 21, 2013 - 4:30pm
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by nurdnarehgum
March 27, 2015 - 11:41pm
Healing doesn't mean the the damaged never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our lives!!!
by Goldie » March 26, 2015 - 6:43pm
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by Goldie
March 26, 2015 - 6:43pm
Two useful quote about Anger and Resentment
by tiredofthisaddiction » March 25, 2015 - 10:32am
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by Goldie
March 26, 2015 - 11:47am
A little Hoover
by ladylilly » March 23, 2015 - 8:02pm
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by ladylilly
March 25, 2015 - 11:08pm
the timing is impeccible
by betterforit » March 19, 2015 - 4:12pm
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by betterforit
March 25, 2015 - 1:27pm
New Support Groups, Update, Including Advanced Group Registration Information
by Goldie » March 9, 2015 - 11:43am
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by Goldie
March 23, 2015 - 10:30am
Vampires
by tiredofthisaddiction » March 18, 2015 - 2:33pm
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by tiredofthisaddiction
March 22, 2015 - 6:33pm
I would like some feedback
by omgalso » March 17, 2015 - 7:43pm
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by thebigpayback
March 21, 2015 - 7:23pm
The notion of expecting a Narcissist to tell you the entire truth is frankly, ridiculous.
by Goldie » March 12, 2015 - 8:27am
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by Cybyl
March 19, 2015 - 11:52am
Believing the narcissists lies; fantasy thinking vs. truth.
by Goldie » March 17, 2015 - 12:14pm
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by Janie53
March 18, 2015 - 1:38pm
so sad today...
by stayingstrong11 » March 16, 2015 - 3:00pm
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by ItsFinallytime
March 17, 2015 - 9:27am
lots of crying these past few days for me.
by betterforit » March 15, 2015 - 12:17pm
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by tiredofthisaddiction
March 17, 2015 - 8:05am
A year and a half later.... same place...
by AlwaysSummer » March 13, 2015 - 6:52pm
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by Goldie
March 16, 2015 - 10:48am
I am mad and sad
by betterforit » March 9, 2015 - 8:55am
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by ladylilly
March 15, 2015 - 4:23pm
Feeling like you are dead inside
by ladylilly » March 6, 2015 - 10:40pm
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by omgalso
March 14, 2015 - 2:22pm
This work is more difficult that I had anticipated
by omgalso » March 12, 2015 - 8:35pm
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by omgalso
March 14, 2015 - 2:11pm
Really Really need support today
by NicoleLoyola » February 26, 2015 - 9:53am
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by ladylilly
March 13, 2015 - 9:51pm
hurting and feeling like giving in....need to be honest
by stayingstrong11 » March 11, 2015 - 1:10am
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by Journey
March 11, 2015 - 3:05pm
Having one of those days
by betterforit » March 10, 2015 - 12:12pm
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by betterforit
March 11, 2015 - 10:39am
Almost broke NC, but stopped when I started to panic
by reneemurphy523 » March 8, 2015 - 9:02pm
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by Journey
March 10, 2015 - 4:28pm
No response vs No contact
by Deidre99 » March 4, 2015 - 8:06pm
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by Deidre99
March 8, 2015 - 4:40pm
Gratitude for those who love you as opposed to obsession for those who don't love you!!!! ~Goldie~
by Goldie » March 7, 2015 - 10:45am
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by Goldie
March 7, 2015 - 10:45am
Are you still addicted to your Narcissist? Longing for a Hoover?
by Goldie » February 24, 2015 - 3:11pm
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by ladylilly
March 6, 2015 - 10:53pm
#DearMe
by Goldie » March 6, 2015 - 1:46pm
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by spinning
March 6, 2015 - 3:15pm
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