All About Him Forum

The All About Him Forum is specifically for newcomers just beginning to understand why narcissists behave the way they do and why they are incapable of genuine love. This forum is focused on working the first three steps to recovering from a narcissist.

1 – Understand It
2 – Get It Out
3 – No Contact

The first three steps often overlap and many of you may find yourself going back and forth between them. This is understandable and perfectly acceptable. No one should beat themselves up for having to repeat a step. "No Contact" often takes several repeated attempts. We must remember, it is about PROGRESS, not PERFECTION. We must celebrate our progress and encourage one another to keep pushing forward.

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Saw my
by betterforit » March 3, 2015 - 8:20am
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by betterforit
March 3, 2015 - 12:48pm
Finally out.
by blue1990 » February 24, 2015 - 10:27am
4
by spinning
March 3, 2015 - 11:03am
Trouble with memories
by moviegal » March 2, 2015 - 4:30pm
2
by spinning
March 3, 2015 - 10:01am
I gave into contact and I'm so mad at myself
by stayingstrong11 » February 25, 2015 - 4:24pm
4
by moviegal
March 2, 2015 - 5:04pm
thank you and what are you guys thankful for now that the Narc is gone
by stayingstrong11 » February 21, 2015 - 8:42pm
4
by moviegal
March 2, 2015 - 4:43pm
Bad few days.... Had contact yesterday due to housing stuff
by stayingstrong11 » March 1, 2015 - 12:37pm
4
by stayingstrong11
March 2, 2015 - 11:48am
Goldie's support group
by stayingstrong11 » March 1, 2015 - 6:38pm
1
by ItsFinallytime
March 1, 2015 - 6:50pm
New Support Groups w/Goldie Beginning Shortly
by Goldie » February 24, 2015 - 3:19pm
2
by Goldie
February 26, 2015 - 9:48am
Sex abuse
by patricia barely... » April 13, 2012 - 8:25pm
30
by Lookforward
February 26, 2015 - 9:45am
One Year Later....
by FreeMe » February 13, 2015 - 6:31pm
14
by spinning
February 26, 2015 - 8:47am
Annoyed!
by betterforit » February 24, 2015 - 4:53pm
3
by stayingstrong11
February 25, 2015 - 4:53pm
Does anyone know how to block FaceTime
by stayingstrong11 » February 23, 2015 - 9:48am
2
by reneemurphy523
February 23, 2015 - 10:01pm
He said he would leave because Im getting too fat.....he's talking with OW
by blue1990 » February 22, 2015 - 7:29am
8
by Goldie
February 23, 2015 - 11:56am
oh my gosh... I read this and tought the writer actually knew my ex...
by stayingstrong11 » February 22, 2015 - 3:13pm
3
by thebigpayback
February 23, 2015 - 11:49am
This getting
by betterforit » February 19, 2015 - 4:09pm
4
by Pumpkin
February 22, 2015 - 2:44am
Email from him today
by NicoleLoyola » February 21, 2015 - 6:26pm
2
by ItsFinallytime
February 21, 2015 - 7:28pm
I'm Baaaaack! :(
by NewMe63 » February 16, 2015 - 2:32pm
2
by NewMe63
February 21, 2015 - 3:52pm
The merry go round.
by stayingstrong11 » February 21, 2015 - 1:06pm
3
by Hunter
February 21, 2015 - 3:38pm
Struggling
by stayingstrong11 » February 19, 2015 - 1:05am
5
by allstar
February 21, 2015 - 3:37pm
The first day of no tears and day 10 of no contact
by stayingstrong11 » February 21, 2015 - 1:50am
4
by stayingstrong11
February 21, 2015 - 2:10pm
50 shades of WHY???
by Portia » February 13, 2015 - 10:57am
11
by Healingslowly_b...
February 21, 2015 - 2:04am
Just had a run in
by betterforit » February 18, 2015 - 1:43pm
0
by betterforit
February 18, 2015 - 1:43pm
Why they don't move on
by allstar » February 17, 2015 - 4:36pm
4
by Lookforward
February 18, 2015 - 12:14pm
My heart and my head and a rant
by stayingstrong11 » February 17, 2015 - 11:05pm
1
by betterforit
February 18, 2015 - 7:18am
Nauseated and other physical symptoms and thank you all
by stayingstrong11 » February 17, 2015 - 11:09am
1
by Janie53
February 17, 2015 - 2:21pm
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