All About Him Forum

The All About Him Forum is specifically for newcomers just beginning to understand why narcissists behave the way they do and why they are incapable of genuine love. This forum is focused on working the first three steps to recovering from a narcissist.

1 – Understand It
2 – Get It Out
3 – No Contact

The first three steps often overlap and many of you may find yourself going back and forth between them. This is understandable and perfectly acceptable. No one should beat themselves up for having to repeat a step. "No Contact" often takes several repeated attempts. We must remember, it is about PROGRESS, not PERFECTION. We must celebrate our progress and encourage one another to keep pushing forward.

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Second-guessing myself
by New Life » November 15, 2014 - 10:39am
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596 by janice m m
November 16, 2014 - 7:45am
How/when did you accept they would never change?
by Thetruthwillset... » November 14, 2014 - 12:36pm
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1,014 by thebigpayback
November 15, 2014 - 4:45pm
CRAZY is as CRAZY does...
by Jammiwood » November 13, 2014 - 3:44pm
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952 by Hunter
November 13, 2014 - 7:02pm
The Boogie Man
by Jammiwood » November 9, 2014 - 10:33am
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692 by Jammiwood
November 13, 2014 - 3:45pm
Closure
by ambrandon7 » November 11, 2014 - 12:13am
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781 by Jammiwood
November 13, 2014 - 3:12pm
Walking through it
by Radiant » November 12, 2014 - 11:21am
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921 by Used
November 12, 2014 - 2:30pm
Fear of change and WHY is understanding and recovering from a Narcissist so difficult?
by Goldie » November 11, 2014 - 12:18pm
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1,362 by LunaRock
November 11, 2014 - 6:07pm
Goldie's most popular Holiday Narcissist Survival Support Group begins shortly
by Goldie » November 2, 2014 - 6:36pm
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532 by truthnow
November 11, 2014 - 12:24pm
Still getting phone calls....
by Mel2192 » November 10, 2014 - 2:59am
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761 by Janie53
November 11, 2014 - 10:24am
Feeling a little low today
by frogbox » October 11, 2014 - 4:10am
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1,639 by JLS
November 10, 2014 - 11:10am
No contact? How long before i earn my chip?
by ambrandon7 » November 3, 2014 - 11:14am
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1,056 by ambrandon7
November 9, 2014 - 7:36pm
Feel like a hopeless loser who is full of anger
by Madea1234 » October 21, 2014 - 8:26am
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1,688 by ambrandon7
November 9, 2014 - 7:25pm
Working the Steps
by ambrandon7 » November 8, 2014 - 11:46pm
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443 by ambrandon7
November 9, 2014 - 11:00am
The Path Backward
by panacea » November 8, 2014 - 3:05pm
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571 by ambrandon7
November 8, 2014 - 11:02pm
For those of you on the fence about joining Goldie's group
by trouble » November 5, 2014 - 4:49pm
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587 by truthnow
November 8, 2014 - 10:10am
2 months NC...a little unfoggy can see the mirroring
by broken23 » November 7, 2014 - 10:34am
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647 by Janie53
November 7, 2014 - 5:38pm
How is NC Practiced When He's Not Contacting Me?
by HappyMe » November 6, 2014 - 1:06pm
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1,032 by HappyMe
November 6, 2014 - 8:49pm
Fighting the urge
by ambrandon7 » November 4, 2014 - 12:51am
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727 by Radiant
November 5, 2014 - 8:14pm
My Reality
by ambrandon7 » November 4, 2014 - 12:29pm
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744 by ambrandon7
November 5, 2014 - 8:30am
The Five Times He Spoke the Truth
by Viola22 » November 2, 2014 - 3:22am
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929 by Luv2bme
November 3, 2014 - 5:33pm
The gifts I sold
by Lovely1 » September 4, 2012 - 1:11am
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1,104 by broken23
November 2, 2014 - 9:41am
Hoover about compromised computer and my pictures
by Anonymous (not verified) » October 31, 2014 - 12:54pm
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618 by Anonymous (not verified)
October 31, 2014 - 3:20pm
If they are such good liars....why do they always get caught?
by broken23 » October 27, 2014 - 9:27pm
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1,339 by spinning
October 30, 2014 - 1:58pm
Narcspeak: The Phone(y) Conversation
by Viola22 » October 30, 2014 - 6:52am
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1,078 by Viola22
October 30, 2014 - 11:54am
Feeling stupid!
by AngelGirl_123 » October 25, 2014 - 7:48pm
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1,193 by WakingUp
October 29, 2014 - 9:30pm
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