All About Him Forum

The All About Him Forum is specifically for newcomers just beginning to understand why narcissists behave the way they do and why they are incapable of genuine love. This forum is focused on working the first three steps to recovering from a narcissist.

1 – Understand It
2 – Get It Out
3 – No Contact

The first three steps often overlap and many of you may find yourself going back and forth between them. This is understandable and perfectly acceptable. No one should beat themselves up for having to repeat a step. "No Contact" often takes several repeated attempts. We must remember, it is about PROGRESS, not PERFECTION. We must celebrate our progress and encourage one another to keep pushing forward.

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Adopt A Sister in Recovery for Support; The Holiday Gift of Love
by Goldie » December 18, 2013 - 12:36pm
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1,522 by ItsFinallytime
December 25, 2014 - 8:28pm
Merry Christmas Survivors!!!!
by Goldie » December 24, 2014 - 4:19pm
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818 by Cherub
December 25, 2014 - 6:31am
Peace
by Healingslowly_b... » December 16, 2014 - 10:40pm
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941 by rosedewittbukater
December 20, 2014 - 3:16pm
I felt I was crazy...only someone who knows can understand
by broken23 » December 17, 2014 - 11:07am
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1,610 by janice m m
December 20, 2014 - 11:51am
Relapsed, had contact with N
by Forchange » December 16, 2014 - 4:24pm
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1,114 by Hunter
December 17, 2014 - 4:28pm
People treat us the way we ALLOW them to treat us & review of 50 Shades of Grey (Page: 1, 2)
by Goldie » November 12, 2012 - 6:30am
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6,919 by Portia
December 17, 2014 - 12:49pm
Such a difference a year makes
by evonjohn » December 16, 2014 - 12:50pm
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717 by evonjohn
December 16, 2014 - 2:11pm
He said, no? Surrendering to win.
by Goldie » December 15, 2014 - 3:07pm
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857 by Goldie
December 15, 2014 - 3:08pm
I fell for it....
by lotus01 » December 5, 2014 - 1:29pm
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1,149 by stayingstrong11
December 8, 2014 - 11:10pm
Early Recovery from a toxic Narcissist and the cycle when NC is broken
by Goldie » November 26, 2014 - 1:44pm
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1,386 by truthnow
December 7, 2014 - 3:03pm
FIRST DAYS OF DISCOVERY - Is my reaction normal?
by SandBtwnMyToes » December 6, 2014 - 1:58pm
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1,003 by Goldie
December 7, 2014 - 8:25am
WILL the Narcissist Treat the Other Woman Better than ME???
by Goldie » December 5, 2014 - 12:44pm
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1,120 by Goldie
December 5, 2014 - 12:44pm
Will the Narcissist treat the other woman better than me?
by Goldie » December 4, 2014 - 5:29pm
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1,087 by Goldie
December 4, 2014 - 5:31pm
He Caught Me - Hook, Line, and Sinker
by Bassy » November 28, 2014 - 1:15am
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1,751 by broken23
December 4, 2014 - 5:05pm
Thankful for Lesson (Re)Learned This Thanksgiving
by LunaRock » November 30, 2014 - 9:54pm
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998 by LunaRock
December 3, 2014 - 3:12pm
But he only did it once
by Hunter » December 1, 2014 - 12:58pm
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1,202 by Janie53
December 2, 2014 - 6:22am
Help! How to deal with random run in...
by Bassy » November 30, 2014 - 2:08am
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961 by Viola22
December 2, 2014 - 1:38am
12 week support group begins
by Goldie » December 1, 2014 - 11:39pm
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433 by Goldie
December 1, 2014 - 11:48pm
what about female narcissists?
by emptypromises4u2keep » November 30, 2014 - 5:09pm
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714 by Krammer
December 1, 2014 - 7:55am
New here and hurting so much.
by katefromny » November 27, 2014 - 3:32pm
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1,345 by Goldie
November 29, 2014 - 9:49am
Wishing you all Thanksgiving Blessings
by Goldie » November 26, 2014 - 9:42pm
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497 by Radiant
November 27, 2014 - 1:02pm
Doubts......
by Goldie » November 21, 2014 - 3:17pm
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1,014 by Used
November 27, 2014 - 12:08pm
curious...did anyone else's N change their number?
by broken23 » November 19, 2014 - 9:32pm
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1,282 by elinor
November 26, 2014 - 12:03pm
Why do I feel like I should
by Radiant » November 22, 2014 - 9:45am
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1,311 by Goldie
November 25, 2014 - 10:14pm
The power of shame
by antoinetteb » September 15, 2014 - 4:57am
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1,153 by Goldie
November 24, 2014 - 2:51pm
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