All About Him Forum

The All About Him Forum is specifically for newcomers just beginning to understand why narcissists behave the way they do and why they are incapable of genuine love. This forum is focused on working the first three steps to recovering from a narcissist.

1 – Understand It
2 – Get It Out
3 – No Contact

The first three steps often overlap and many of you may find yourself going back and forth between them. This is understandable and perfectly acceptable. No one should beat themselves up for having to repeat a step. "No Contact" often takes several repeated attempts. We must remember, it is about PROGRESS, not PERFECTION. We must celebrate our progress and encourage one another to keep pushing forward.

All About Him Forum

Log in to post new content in the forum.
Topic / Topic starter Replies Views Last postsort ascending
He said he would leave because Im getting too fat.....he's talking with OW
by blue1990 » February 22, 2015 - 7:29am
8
1,589 by Goldie
February 23, 2015 - 11:56am
oh my gosh... I read this and tought the writer actually knew my ex...
by stayingstrong11 » February 22, 2015 - 3:13pm
3
1,137 by thebigpayback
February 23, 2015 - 11:49am
This getting
by betterforit » February 19, 2015 - 4:09pm
4
869 by Pumpkin
February 22, 2015 - 2:44am
Email from him today
by NicoleLoyola » February 21, 2015 - 6:26pm
2
838 by ItsFinallytime
February 21, 2015 - 7:28pm
I'm Baaaaack! :(
by NewMe63 » February 16, 2015 - 2:32pm
2
1,102 by NewMe63
February 21, 2015 - 3:52pm
The merry go round.
by stayingstrong11 » February 21, 2015 - 1:06pm
3
746 by Hunter
February 21, 2015 - 3:38pm
Struggling
by stayingstrong11 » February 19, 2015 - 1:05am
5
939 by allstar
February 21, 2015 - 3:37pm
The first day of no tears and day 10 of no contact
by stayingstrong11 » February 21, 2015 - 1:50am
4
769 by stayingstrong11
February 21, 2015 - 2:10pm
50 shades of WHY???
by Portia » February 13, 2015 - 10:57am
11
1,827 by Healingslowly_b...
February 21, 2015 - 2:04am
Just had a run in
by betterforit » February 18, 2015 - 1:43pm
0
666 by betterforit
February 18, 2015 - 1:43pm
Why they don't move on
by allstar » February 17, 2015 - 4:36pm
4
1,373 by Lookforward
February 18, 2015 - 12:14pm
My heart and my head and a rant
by stayingstrong11 » February 17, 2015 - 11:05pm
1
653 by betterforit
February 18, 2015 - 7:18am
Nauseated and other physical symptoms and thank you all
by stayingstrong11 » February 17, 2015 - 11:09am
1
733 by Janie53
February 17, 2015 - 2:21pm
Strength... It is becoming real... And questions
by stayingstrong11 » February 15, 2015 - 10:17pm
6
1,174 by stayingstrong11
February 16, 2015 - 1:28pm
The thought of him having new supply is making me want to throw up
by stayingstrong11 » February 14, 2015 - 10:59am
6
1,498 by stayingstrong11
February 14, 2015 - 2:20pm
50 Shades of Grey, Pay it Forward, Adopt A Sister initiative
by Goldie » February 13, 2015 - 6:16pm
3
935 by Goldie
February 14, 2015 - 10:23am
i do believe
by betterforit » February 14, 2015 - 7:25am
1
533 by Goldie
February 14, 2015 - 9:52am
Day 1 of NC coming to an end
by stayingstrong11 » July 17, 2014 - 11:49pm
9
1,178 by NicoleLoyola
February 14, 2015 - 8:16am
The pain coming here to write instead of unblocking
by stayingstrong11 » February 12, 2015 - 7:42pm
7
950 by Goldie
February 13, 2015 - 9:06pm
Suffering at the moment
by NicoleLoyola » February 13, 2015 - 3:29pm
4
692 by Goldie
February 13, 2015 - 5:46pm
Playing on your insecurities
by betterforit » February 10, 2015 - 9:41pm
11
1,591 by Thetruthwillset...
February 13, 2015 - 8:26am
Haven't been on here long time!
by cutiepie24 » February 12, 2015 - 11:19pm
0
549 by cutiepie24
February 12, 2015 - 11:19pm
Help! I want to send anonymous letter to OW
by run10kaday » February 8, 2015 - 3:18pm
6
1,227 by Hunter
February 12, 2015 - 10:23am
Smear Campaign
by betterforit » February 12, 2015 - 8:20am
3
708 by Hunter
February 12, 2015 - 10:22am
I am back here again... I am so mad at myself and ashamed and hurt.
by stayingstrong11 » February 12, 2015 - 12:41am
2
1,037 by Hunter
February 12, 2015 - 8:51am
  • New posts
  • No new posts
  • Hot topic with new posts
  • Hot topic without new posts
  • Sticky topic
  • Locked topic