Victimized Extreme Narcissist

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#1 April 19, 2017 - 1:49pm

Victimized Extreme Narcissist

I've never heard of this type of narcissist until I googled about issues I am having with my spouse. He has many traits that lead me to believe he is a VEN.
- plays the victim (blamed his ex wife for the divorce, portrayed her as Satan)
- claimed to always be broke when we dated, due to his outrageous child support
- had an affair (texted his HS sweetheart several weeks after our wedding, which evolved into sexting, but they never had physical contact because she wouldn't meet up with him)
- found evidence of him lying to family and friends about me, telling them our marriage was "all my idea"
- bad hygiene (won't shave or brush teeth for days)
I am almost certain he is bad mouthing me to his parents because his dad is treating me like a ba$tard at a family reunion. He doesn't go to his kids' games much, and I suspect he has made me out to be the ball buster wife who won't let him do anything.

On the bright side, now I have a definition of this behavior.

April 19, 2017 - 1:50pm

I'll bet anything he is the

I'll bet anything he is the one who cheated on his ex wife, not her!

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