Right on my heels...

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#1 Aug 6 - 12PM
pattylyn
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Right on my heels...

I'm kind of on the coat tail of Avid (previous blogger) with feelings of being set up. I've been a member for awhile due to my ex-N's duping me and (almost) completely destroying my life emotionally and financially. I've been able to pick up the pieces very little at a time, I went to therapy and my recovery has been slow and painful. From the time we broke up until about a month ago, I (out of pain, shame and despair) continued contact with him exclusively through texting. He would never call, nor did I. He sent me a picture of a new BMW he purchased after he meticulously caused me to loose my Benz. When I asked if he would consider returning to our relationship, he said he wanted to and eventually would call me to discuss it. This was my sick attempt to stroke my own ego. That call never came, but he did contact me (via text) and was bold enough to ask me for money twice (ironically, that is just how our relationship started, and ended). I said no, and for whatever divine reason, that was the end for me, I was done! Fast forward to a week ago, his cousin comes into town (I live in Vegas) and she ask me to meet with her at the mall so that we could see each other, it's been awhile and she knew my pain. Prior to her arriving I asked her if my ex-N was also coming because I knew it was his birthday and she said "no". I get to the mall and she enlightens me that she was there in the mall with his daughter and that yes indeed he was here. I wasn't clear if that meant he was in town or in the mall as well, but I felt like she had just socked me in the stomach and stabbed my heart at the same time. Once again she has betrayed me when it came to him (she never warned me from the very beginning) and I was so very hurt. I excused myself immediately, telling her I needed to leave and went and sat in my car and just cried. I thought maybe I overreacted. A day later his face pops up in "people you might know" on my Facebook page. Was I set up? What was the purpose? The tests just keep coming. I have daily motivators to move on with my life, but this chapter is definitely not one I would of ever expected.

Aug 7 - 11AM
pattylyn
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Absolutely 100% right

Aug 7 - 8PM (Reply to #5)
allstar
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Patty

Aug 7 - 12PM (Reply to #4)
Deidre99
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hugs and it will get better.

Aug 6 - 9PM
Deidre99
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No contact. You broke no

Aug 6 - 9PM (Reply to #2)
Deidre99
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Oh, and change your phone