HELP! MY EX NARC IS CALLING ME AND SAYING I TOLD HIS MOTHER THAT HE IS A DRUG DEALER

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#1 April 19, 2017 - 11:05am

HELP! MY EX NARC IS CALLING ME AND SAYING I TOLD HIS MOTHER THAT HE IS A DRUG DEALER

Hi...I'm new. I posted my whole true story earlier under the newcomers conversation. But right now....I need help. I haven't responded to my narc in 17 days. Now he is in Orinda visiting his parents and sending me messages accusing me of calling his mother to tell her that he is a drug addict! I would never do something like that and he knows it. He's lying .....probably to get a reaction from me. He knows how much I love his mother....and she and I are very close. Its been very hard for me to not contact her either. I have a feeling that he will tell her to call me.....or use this time to smear me. Should I answer her call....if she dies call? We are very close. She's probably wondering what's going on. He has been calling me...,and texting me....and sending me songs. He also asked me to not call his mother to tell her we broke up.I don't know what to do about his mom. I miss her. She's been like a mom to me....and she loves me very much...,genuinely. And yes...she is aware about her son's evil ways. When I left him in October 2016 ( please read my story) she begged me to forgive him....and that he loves me. I told her he was cheating and posted intimate pics of him and his lover on FB. But she begged me to take him back. He hoovered me in December 2016....and I took him back end of Jan this year. He emotionally demolished me. And I haven't spoken to him since April 2nd . I haven't responded to any if his calls and messages. Now he is calling....and saying his mom told him that I told her he was a drug dealer. He knows I would never do that. I think he will have his mother call me now.....and if I don't respond....he will smear me to her. I can't handle this. Please someone help me....please.