A little Hoover

No contact is great! Helps me heal, even though my therapist says to me " you were not rejected, you are just recovering from a codependent relapse ". And this is true. All of the old feelings of making up stories of him and his new fiance' like what they are doing and planning, how he is treating her, stuff like that,and my notions that I was not good enough are there. So I was just reminded by him that he is the one that is sick... I needed to text him about a schedule change for his daddy dinner night with our child. He answers that he will let me know tomorrow, (because he is like a little boy and needs to tell his woman about it tonight for her codependent needs), he could of just given me the answer straight away. However the next thing he says is, I had a dream last night that you were crying, really weird. What the hell does that mean!! Didn't answer him. Does it mean he is being mean and is saying I am a sad sack because of his absence in my life, or is he trying to hoover a emotional response from me? Any ideas? Mind you we just got out of a 4 hour court room last week and didn't even acknowledge one another, we each had a lawyer. It was like I didn't even know this person when I did glance at him...sickening. So what is his deal?