Believing the narcissists lies; fantasy thinking vs. truth.

Believing the narcissists lies; fantasy thinking vs. truth.

He lies to everyone else, just not to you?

Ties in with the notion that we are somehow special to them and exempt from their full "abuse treatment plan." This is the purpose of the honeymoon stage. The honeymoon stage is designed to cement the deal, FOR YOU, that you are special, the chosen one, better than the others, closer to them, soulmate, love of their life, different...........

Meanwhile they are sucking in new supply with similar honeymoon type hype, while you are still doing their laundry and kissing their ass.

The truth isn't pretty, yet either is obsessing over a dead end no win relationship.

The truth sets you free.

The obsessing keeps you stuck.

What's it going to be?

Remain in your fantasy world where the narcissist is going to change and come riding in on a white horse and live happily ever after or the truth???

The truth sets us free. The truth is tough to face after months or years of conditioning/lies and manipulation.

Healing and getting your thinking back on straight takes work. Are you ready or willing to do the work or do you want to be crying about the same narcissist next year and the year after that???

It's up to you.

Goldie