Narcissists LIE; You have just been Zapped by a Pathological Narcissist

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#1 Feb 24 - 12PM
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Narcissists LIE; You have just been Zapped by a Pathological Narcissist

Narcissists LIE; You have just been Zapped by a Pathological Narcissist

If I had a dollar for everytime I hear:

But HE said.......I'd be a very wealthy woman.

Narcissists LIE.

They lie when they want to.
They lie when they think they need to.
They lie when they don't need to lie.

They LIE.

He said he did not do it.
He said he was not there.
He said I did not hear him right.
He said it was not his fault.
He said he did not text her.
He said he did not sleep with her.
He said he is no longer on the dating site.
He said he did not steal my money.
He said he had not engaged in sex for months before me.
He said they were just friends.
He said we were going to get married.
He said, I was the one; his soulmate.
He said, I was the love of his life.
He said he didn't have those type of feelings for her.
He said she contacted him.
He said his X was the crazy one.
He said "they" screwed him over; not the other way around.
He said I was the only one.
He said, he got tested.
He said he wanted our baby.
He said the check was in the mail.
He said he would never leave me.

The list goes on and on and on and on.........

Narcissists LIE LIE LIE......

When their lips are moving they are lying.

Actions speak louder than words.

Lies you tell yourself:

My narcissist does not lie to me.
My narcissist really loves me.
My narcissist is not as bad to me as your narcissist.
My narcissist doesn't cheat on me.
My narcissist means well.
My narcissist loves me while we are having sex.
My man is not a narcissist, he has a few narcissistic traits.
My narcissist is not that bad because he does not hit me.
My narcissist is coming back to me and he will change.
My narcissist treats the OW better than me.
My narcissist loves his children.
My narcissist loves me deep down inside; he just doesn't know how to show it.
My narcissist will love me once I solve all his problems.
My narcissist will love me if I change me.
My narcissist told me he does not love me because I am the crazy one.
My narcissist is still in love with someone else; this is why he cannot love me.
My narcissist had a bad childhood, so if he goes to therapy he will be able to love me.
My narcissist is like all men, they don't know how to love women.
My narcissist can be taught how to love me.
My narcissist does not love me because of the way I look.
My narcissist told me he will love me more if I get plastic surgery.
My narcissist will love me more if I lose weight.
My narcissist will love me more if I give him more money.
My narcissist would love me if I were different.

My narcissist said said said said said.......fill in the blank.......

Narcissists LIE.

They work you, wear you down, kill your truth, your instincts.

Your instincts-your higher self is like poison to the narcissist, like weeds in his fake garden. He sprays your truth, strength, and instincts with weed killer. Your truth is his biggest buzz kill so he continuously sprays you with weed kill.

Weed kill:

They future fake, they love bomb, they make false promises, they offer false flattery, they pretend, they blame, they accuse, they create smoke screens, triangles, they gas light, they lie lie lie lie lie lie lie lie lie.......causing you to blame yourself. Weed kill.

Weed kill=keeping you down! quiet! and blaming yourself!

Narcissists meticulously tear down your self esteem until your head is in a spin.

This is how they like you, in a spin. Your spin amuses them, because they know if you are in a spin, they are off the hook.

Blame the target. Blame the target. Blame the target.

He said= He lied.

He said=He lied.

He is saying=He is lying.

STOP saying.......he said.

What do you say?
What do you think?
What do you feel? What is your gut, your instincts telling you?
What are your instincts telling you?

If your head is in a spin......you have been duped by a narcissist.

Your head is not in a spin when you are not being screwed with and lied to.

"I've never felt this way about anyone."

You have this one straight, this is because no one has ever screwed with you like this before.

The head spin does not mean you love them so much or they love you so much, it means you are being screwed with so much.

You have just been Zapped by a Pathological Narcissist.

Together and healing,
Xoxo

Goldie

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Mar 29 - 4AM
Cherub
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Thank you Goldie

Mar 28 - 3PM
LadyFrances
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Thanks for this

Mar 18 - 6PM
omgalso
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Fantastic Goldie!

Feb 25 - 2AM
Lookforward
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Fabulous post! Weed

Feb 24 - 3PM
stayingstrong11
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Goldie

Feb 24 - 4PM (Reply to #2)
NicoleLoyola
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Great job stayingstrong! I