Are you still addicted to your Narcissist? Longing for a Hoover?

Are you still addicted to your Narcissist? Longing for a Hoover? Hoping he or she will return to you, madly in love with you. A changed person and at long last realizing what they had in you and gave up or had and did not appreciate?

If this is the case, you are not alone in this type of thinking.

This is what keeps us in the game for so long.

The Hope that one day if we try hard and long enough, the narcissist will come to their senses, and be grateful for what they have in us. After all, who else could love them as we do?

Are you still in the game because deep down inside, you do not believe, or cannot believe that the pathological liar/narcissist will never be capable of giving to you what you need and want?

Is your fantasy version of who and what your narcissist is, different from all that you read?

Are we all wrong and you are right and part of you still wants to prove this to all who doubted his or her sincerity?

Are you so deep in his or her world of betrayal and hurt that the prospect of no longer obsessing about them sends you reeling into overwhelming fits of withdrawal?

Is your head spinning so fast and so often that you have lost your sense of clarity?

Yes, we too have been where you are and there is a way back.

Much love,
You are not alone,
Goldie

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